Cote, you ask if I?ve read "The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time"?
Yes, I have. Good book.
You ask about being a "visual aspie"? If the budget will cope, get Dr Temple Grandin?s book ?Thinking in Pictures?. Not a lot of money from good online booksellers. She?s autistic, a brilliant engineer, and thinks in pictures, as I do.
How does it work? Easy? Get a piece of paper and a pencil. Now draw all the things you can see in this phrase:
?It was a complete red herring. I don?t see why I have to carry the can for this. I?m not able to pull a rabbit out of a hat for the managers, am I? I have to be able to draw on my skills and I know life isn?t a bowl of cherries?.
Do you have a picture of a red fish, someone carrying a can, someone pulling a rabbit out of a hat, a manager, someone taking a pen and drawing something on their skills, and a big bowl of cherries? My brain does. I then have to erase every single bloomin image and work out what on EARTH they were trying to say.
Now try drawing these things: the Holy Spirit, love, grace, the phrase ?to be?. How about ?faith?. What does it look like on the piece of paper?
Any luck? No? In each case I have to be able to imagine what something would look like, or what a person would be doing to demonstrate it, and create a visual image of it before it means something to me.
?Have faith? means my brain is trying to create a picture of someone with a handful of, er, umm, nope, I have no idea what.
A faith is what people do when they read the Bible (for example) and when they go to church (for example) and when they believe that God exists and that there is a heaven and a hell. Those are all things I can picture, even if I?m not sure what God looks like, (I can guess, just to give my brain an image to work with).
But I don?t know how to ?have? faith in that sense of ?if you?re feeling sad, just have faith?. It would have to be phrased as ?if you are feeling sad, read the Bible and find out what practical things you can do to help yourself, and maybe pray to God and tell Him what you are worried about? It is a set of actions, not an invisible thought, an emotion.
Do I believe in myths and heresay and do I do everything a church tells me? No, I refer to the source, the four Gospels. If it?s not in there, I apply a test of careful thinking and asking for expert advice. Some religious practices really help me, others don?t.
This isn?t a thread about faith, and I?d rather not have my faith questioned on this bit because I'm too tired and worn down to really cope with it at the moment, so please can I ask that if people have other questions to ask about it, they try to understand that I?m on the autistic spectrum and I?m finding this very, very difficult indeed and would rather stop?