agree with jute (have seen your video before, but always enjoy watching it - I hope dd1 can access as many things in the future )
dd1's biggest problem is the rest of the world. she is mostly happy in herself.
she sees things differently form me, but not necessarily in a worse way.
she hears things very differently (very acute hearing - at the weekend we were in a shopping centre, and as we came out of one shop she started having a huge meltdown. we changed direction (incidental) and she calmed down. changed our minds again ([blush - we really help her, don't we?]) and went back the original way. she freaked out again. we got on the escalator, and halfway down, it became apparent that there was the worst grinding/squeaking noise ever. which she had heard over the general noise of the shopping centre (huge place, very busy). i hadn't heard it, and i have very acute hearing myself) but again, that's not necessarily a bad thing.
she has the most phenomenol memory.
her main problems stem from people outside the family not understanding or letting her be.
so she gets nice little old ladies in supermarkets talking to her, and persisting in talking to her even if it upsets her (which it does).
she gets people tutting and muttering if she has a meltdown because she is scared of something, rather than helping her remedy the situation.
she has come an awfully long way in her short life, and I hope she continues to be happy, but I do worry about a world where people would eb happy to screen her out - how is that going to help the outside world understand her more? how is that going to help her get the help she needs?
i do not want a cleverer child, or a brighter, fitter, healthier - whatever word you want to put on it, really.
i will not screen for autism in my next pregnancy. But then i don't have any other testing either.