mollysawally are you out there??

[chocolatescoffer]

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[mollysawally]

We have decided to elpoe mamabea, only told our closest friends and its booked for September

[mamabea]

wonderful. So romantic

[mollysawally]

We gave notice to marry today so its all official now, we're gonna keep it quite casual and relaxed. I'm getting excited now!

[mamabea]

Very exciting.I really hope you both have a wonderful day. Please post and let us know how it went.

[chocolatescoffer]

what exactly does 'elpoe' mean!

[mollysawally]

You troublesome minx! this isn't pedants corner. My spelling's even worse than yours chocs!

Thank you mamabea, I'll make sure I post how it goes, fingers crossed it all goes well!

[TillyScoutsmum]

Blimey molly/squishy/wispy/foxy you've got through some bloody name changes Hope you're ok and the wedding plans are going well. Come back and talk to us soon ...please

[mamabea]

PS what's WMMC?

[chocolatescoffer]

only joshing! good luck with getting hitched molly!

[mollysawally]

WMMC is whomovedmychocolate, (i think) I saw your cat bum thread, have you recovered from the de-clagging yet?!

Thank you chocs! Caused anymore chaos recently?

Tilly - I'm not very good at name changing though am I? I end up saying or doing something silly and feel I have to name change. Then I wanna chat to the people I knew before and everyone always finds me out!
Now I've been well and truly outed I'll come and join back in with the wedding thread. Been dying to speak to T42 about her wedding and find out how everyone's getting on with their plans but after the whole wispy fiasco I've been too embarrassed! What a debacle that was, I almost left after that but MN is too addictive, you just cant leave!
How are you Tilly? How the wedding coming along?

I'm going to stay as Molly now and try and not cause myself any more embarrsement!

[mamabea]

Hurrah for Molly!

Yes, recovered, but still no amount of handwashing takes away the 'dirty feeling.' YUK.

[TillyScoutsmum]

Good girl Molly - you are rubbish at name changing - you'll just have to say silly things and stand by them like the rest of us I was concerned you were running away from me cos you thought I was going to stalk you into going dress shopping - I'm not honestly - it was just a suggestion if you thought it would help

Don't be embarrassed - you've done nothing wrong

Come back and talk to us x

[brightongirldownunder]

Lovely molly when's the date for eloping?

[Foxymolly]

I've changed my name for the last time brightongirl.
We are getting married on 13th September, unlucky for some, hopefully not us!

How are you, caused any more trouble lately?!
How did the phobia thread go , I completly missed it!

[brightongirldownunder]

sept 13th is my brothers birthday and he's one lucky sod I tell you!
A wee bit of fun trouble caused - nothing harmful though.
thread still going - hurrah!
see if you can give me advice on my other thread (in Chat - still don't know how to link) - you seem very good at being honest!

[brightongirldownunder]

Loving Foxymolly btw!

[Foxymolly]

I've been over to your other thread, still laughing about it now, you crazy lady!

[mamabea]

what's your thread Brightongirl?

[Foxymolly]

here it is mamabea How are you today?

[mamabea]

thanks, loving your new name.

I'm feeling bloody rubbish. Very tired. Totally crap mum. Moan at DD2 all day and hate myself afterwards.

Feel utterly shite.

Everyday I promise that I will be nicer, more creative and 'fun' and each bleary eyed morning I descend into being a horrible tyrant.

It's the sleep thing.

[mamabea]

ps:Brightongirl-you sound like such a lovely person that I am sure the other mums won't hold it against you.

[Foxymolly]

Your not a crap mum mamabea, your just tired, everyone is cranky and ratty and miserable when they are sleep deprived.

I know your a lovely person because of that really nice thing you said to brightongirl

Is there no way you can have a break and catch up on your sleep?

[mamabea]

Thanks Foxymolly for kind message. Bounced back today after a better night.

Before having DD2 I worked full time (breadwinner)and missed missed DD1 so very much each and everydaythat I imagined this time together would be so special (and it is) and being so tired sometimes mars my ability to enjoy or just relax into my time with my girls.

Also, return to work is soon so sometimes get overwhelmed with sadness about that. I love my job but love being with family more.

I need to not have such expectations of us all and just 'be' (if that makes sense).

[Foxymolly]

It does make sense mamabea. Its hard to enjoy 'now' when you are worrying about the future.

I'm in a similar situation, my paid maternity leave has just finished and I'm currently on annual leave for 4 weeks and then I'm due back. I'm dreading it. The thought of returning to work has impacted on the time I have left with dd. I'm trying to put it to the back of my mind but its not that easy. You are so right though, we do need to just 'be'.

I'm glad your feeling better though mamabea. Lets make a pact to enjoy the time we have left and to bannish all thoughts of work!

[mamabea]

that's a deal!