i have another stance.
firstly i am sick to death of the schools system being used for surrogate parenting - it is a huge bugbear of mine.
the schools food police
health police
citizenship ffs!
there is a huge section within society that just doesn't care quite frankly. its not condusive with the hippy mumsnet mantra i realise and i don hardhat - only to qualify this statement by adding that i am not speaking about all the underclass.
I am a firm believer in cultural change - rather than forced change ( through schools)
I am often amazed at the brilliant work that Sure Start has done with underprivalaged communities with regards to cultural change ( smacking and in particular breastfeeding) i have seen this first hand in more than one area and although it mightn't be nearly enough, the cultural change with regards to Breastfeeding is IMO spectacular - considering my peer group 18 years ago when my son was born.
this is becuase surestart works with parents to educate them on parenting issues.
and it is THIS IMO which is the key driver behind cultural change in this country.
educate the parents. I don't know how this would take shape - i have said this before to be met with other poster saying "how do you suggest this is done?" i acknowledge that the sections of society that most need help are going to be the most reluctant to take part in parenting classes - which should and coulc be called something else.
no one likes to think that they need teaching parenting skills - and i am sure some great person with word spin could change that 'title'
I don't know how to enforce it other than to link it to Child benefit. I don't say this lightly as (rather like peoples stance on changing abortion times) i rather thing that i would like the govt to not interfere with CB, but i think that working class and middle class people could probably afford to make a decision - yes i shall go and get my cb - nah how very dare thay!
underclass will probably participate.
i think this infinately better than giving certain sections of society yet more money on top of - more of my tax that is.
i mean with the £200 to give up smoking, crack, heroin whatever, the other incentives i cant think of at the mo and this extra £200 - even if given weekly is a huge amount of money both to the govt purse and to the poor person recieving it.
if this is given in vouchers or is watered down to £5 voucher per week - its simply a waste, becuase it will then become a "cheers" for someone who wanted to do it anyway - rather than an incentive for someone to do it in the first place.
its all about parental cultural change IMO