i can't get work as can't afford childcare
dp is doing a course as he has been out of work for almost 3 years and is getting nowhere, however him doing the course leaves us about 50 quid a week worse off
we have no overdraft or credit cards so when we have no money we literally have no money
we live in the country and spend 60/80 euros a week on petrol, 200 a month on oil for heating (which we hardly run as we can't afford more), elec bills are paid when the next one comes in/they start askig for their money
if someone pays an unplanned visit we literally have no food to feed them as our shops are so carefully planned
all ds's clothes are hand me downs from very kind friends of ours and dd hasn't had clothes since last summer
we live in an unfurnished house to save on rent and the only furniture we have is borrowed from parents or paid for by family
i own one pair of pants and about 3 wearable tops
and you know what, we're actually doing better than this time last year