but of course you can, that's what she's asked us to do for years. lovely kerry and bri and the kids in ok mag etc, going on i'm a celeb blah blah blah. she wants us to have an opinion, her livelihood depends on it. she just wants us to have a good opinion, that's all.
and without wishing to fall into the trap of 'all judging is negative' etc, i cannot help but wrinkle my nose at the sight women with big bumps standing in their goonies at the doors of maternity hospitals. i physically can't help it. it's a disgusting habit at the best of times, but when you're carrying a baby? nah, that's the pits. and yes, her husband could have left her that morning, there could be extenuating circumstances, whatever. but i have a reaction to it, based on the careful consideration of the evidence that it is harmful to her child and she likely knows it.