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I think it's crazy - and I'm hoping to god that if it does come into play it's not until my FIL has been over to see us at some point late next year.
We're planning a 6 month long trip (it will be first time even outside of Zimbabwe - let alone the African continent and probably his last.....), staying with us, and my 2 SIL's.....and visiting a few other distant family members scattered around the country. However cutting it down to 3 months would make the whole planning exercise feel like a waste of time (planning has been going on since August this year), and if the £1000 was included we couldn't afford it and he would never get to come over.