Sorry SaintJude, but no benefits to smoking?
Ask the mums stood outside the hospital doors whether there is any benefit to smoking?
You may not agree with their thoughts and neither would I but they will certainly argue the point with you, plus, argue that it is their right to do so.
As I said smoking is very emotive, the do's and dont's will argue the point vociferously.
Sadly smoking is a fact of life today and will probably continue to be so for some years hence.
Only the mother can make the decision to stop smoking and she will choose to do so when she feels it is right for her. Not for baby, family, me, you, society etc., indeed she may never stop.
There is a lot of information, help, support available, but it is only there when someone chooses to ask for it, it cannot be thrust upon them.
Women choose to refuse blood tests in pregnancy, that is their right, refuse vaginal examinations, that is their right. If problems occur because of their refusal, do they receive the same condemnation as a smoker? No, they made a conscious decision to refuse treatment/advice etc.
Smoking is not good for anyone, but please, do not portray smokers as bad people, they have rights too, and pay quite heavily for the 'sin' of smoking.
If all in life were perfect, wouldn't it be boring? where would we go for a darn good stimulating arguement.