So difficult! My neighbours' boy is only 6 and weights 9 stone and is 135cm in height. He eats all day long: sweets/cakes/crisps ... and has Coke for breakfast. His baby teeth crumbled away due to excessive sugar in his diet.
His parents are great people and in all other respects, they're thoughtful and loving. But they're feeding their kid into an unhappy and unhealthy adulthood - and they can't see it.
They're in complete denial. Naturally I've not said a word, but we've just back from a week's holiday with them ... and the over-eating was worse than I originally thought.
I don't know what the answer is