Okay, let's get a few things straight shall we?
Pearltreeishappy - firstly, you need to distinguish between building an argument - something I do - and simply refuting what I say, which doesn't tell us anything. That's not a counterargument, though interestingly those who work for the State i.e. the NHS and Social Services do follow that way of thinking - that if an allegation is made, it is true - and to negate it, you simply refute it. Then, apparently, it's not true. I am well up on that one, thank you.
I suppose you think that Hillsborough was just a conspiracy theory, right? What about the murder by opiates at Gosport - is that still a conspiracy or has that actually happened now it's been reported in the press. Please be so good as to let us know.
Didn't the Dept of Health suppress that report for a decade? Was that done by accident or was that a cover up?
I do find your attitude disturbing, but not unusual. You are making out that Dr Barton was doing this all by herself. Okay, she was responsible, but she was part of a team, one that closes ranks pretty damn quick. Unfortunately for your case, you appear to be part of that team, broadly speaking, in that you work for the State, I take it?
As for Wheelycote, I will give you the benefit of the doubt and imagine you are not trying to wind me up!
Once your parent is in a care home, that is it - especially if you did not know to get Lasting Power of Attorney in Health and Welfare (because nobody told you about it, and I am telling you now). You will not be allowed to get them back to the family home. You will be trapped, because - get this - the State is legally in charge of your parent's welfare. They are the decision makers, not you. That even applies if you are self-funding, in fact more so cos they want your money to subsidise their care homes. You are paying more for your parent than the Council pays for any of its individual residents, to the tune of several hundred a week.
So you are stuck - your parent is in that care home, you are forking out a grand a week, it won't be much different anywhere else, and if you leave them be they die through dehydration.
What's more, however, the Council is under no legal obligation to inform self-funders if the care home is failing! It can, however, stop you from moving your parent from that failing care home, usually on a trumped up Section 42 allegation charge against you, the relative, one that it won't even necessarily inform you of. Both Surrey's Reigate and Banstead locality Safeguarding team and Epsom & Ewell Safeguarding team did this to us.
But again - the dehydration policy is not 'failure', just to be clear. That is what they are intending to do - and you won't be informed about it.
That said, such Safeguarding teams will - verbally - make the kind offer on hearing of your dispute with the care home - a dispute about dehydration concerns incidentally, that you might like to get your parent back to the family home? That's nice, isn't it?
Turns out they make this offer - verbally, never in writing - so they can make out you are likely to abscond with your parent from the care home and get a court order stopping you from moving them. They can also authorise a fishing expedition against you to get dirt on you to have you barred from the home, barred from seeing your parent and, of course, barred from giving them drink. They can also take over the Deputyship, affording them total power! Result - parent dead, money saved, job done.
Anyway, pearltree, the cat is out of the bag according to yesterday's Daily Mail, in particular the comments by Professor Patrick Pullicino. Dehydration is used for the terminally ill. See the link below.
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5871993/Doctors-giving-patients-killer-drug-overdoses-causing-early-death-UK-experts-warn.html