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OMG. Anybody just seen GMTV? 3 yr old girl abducted on holiday on the Algarve.

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tiredemma · 04/05/2007 07:48

kate said reports just in, cant find anything on bbc.

bloody awful.

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petunia · 04/05/2007 12:47

They're talking about this on Jeremy Vine's Radio 2 show at the moment.

DeviousDaffodil · 04/05/2007 12:47

Wondered how long it would be before people started tut- tutting. Shame.
I am praying she is returned safe and sound.
Hope it is something like a domestic/ estranged parent and nothing worse. poor baby.

Tutter · 04/05/2007 12:47

and yes i'm afraid i have to say that i would never leave ds unattended in a building, wherever we were

Tutter · 04/05/2007 12:49

(DD - a stroy like this will inevitably raise the question i'm afraid. and if it traspires that she was left, then maybe it will stop the same from happening to another family in future. so valid imo)

nogoes · 04/05/2007 12:51

I know what you mean Hulababy. Oh god, this is truly awful.

wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 04/05/2007 12:52

of course it's desperately sad for the family, no-one would dispute that. But I don't think it's wrong to question why someone would leave such young children unattended in an unsecured room in what is essentially a public place.

DeviousDaffodil · 04/05/2007 12:53

Maybe we should wait for the full facts before we start judging.

wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 04/05/2007 12:53

and the friend of the family has confirmed that the three children had been left, so it's not something that has just been made up by the media iyswim.

NotQuiteCockney · 04/05/2007 12:54

As blu has said, the Lanzarote hair-dyeing German child-abducting story is an urban legend, before everyone gets worked up about that.

And I am very about this story tbh. Child abduction by strangers is incredibly rare.

RTKangaMummy · 04/05/2007 13:00

From BBC website

Toddler 'abducted' during holiday

Madeline disappeared while her parents were at a nearby restaurant
A search is being carried out for a three-year-old from Britain who may have been abducted while on holiday with her family in Portugal.
Madeline McCann's parents, from Leicestershire, were at a restaurant near the Mark Warner Ocean Summer Club, Praia da Luz when she went missing.

Kate and Gerry McCann returned at about 2145 GMT to find an empty bed and the apartment door and window wide open.

The apartment has been cordoned off and local people are helping with a search.

'Devoted family'

Gill Renwick, a friend of the family, said Mr and Mrs McCann had been having a meal in a tapas restaurant a few hundred yards from the apartment and had been checking on the toddler every half hour.

"She's obviously been taken as she couldn't have gone out on her own and the shutters had been forced open.

The McCann family had been holidaying with a larger group

"They're a devoted family and love their children to bits. They live for their children."

But Ms Renwick said the family, from Rothley, had felt let down by police in Portugal.

"I spoke to them [McCann family] this morning and they said the police had done nothing overnight and they felt as if they'd been left on their own.

"They just don't know where to turn."

But the manager of the Mark Warner resort in Portugal, John Hill, said about 60 staff and guests at the complex had searched until 0430 GMT while police notified border police, Spanish police and airports.

'Sensitive case'

"As you can imagine Madeline's parents are distraught and not doing very well at all," he said.

"It's still questionable as to whether it's abduction," he said. "We are hoping that Madeline is found as soon as possible and safe and well."

A spokeswoman from the Portuguese police said they were being careful with the information being released.

"It is a sensitive case, it involves a child and we cannot give more information for now."

The British Embassy confirmed it had been informed about the toddler's disappearance.

The family was on holiday with a group of nine adults and eight children.

Ms Renwick added the toddler would be easy to spot as she was very pretty and blonde.

"People in the local area should look out to see if there's anything unusual, did they hear anything, any strange noises?

"She's very pretty and very blonde so wouldn't be a likely child to be with a Portuguese family or holidaymakers."

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debbsyandsonn · 04/05/2007 13:00

oh my god how awful sending positive thoughts that they find her safe and well.

RTKangaMummy · 04/05/2007 13:01

WATCH BBC1 now

homemama · 04/05/2007 13:02

This is so sad. Please God, let her be ok!

It's strange, just yesterday Dh and I were talking about the little british boy who went missing in corfu about 17yrs ago. No trace ever found.

MaloryTowers · 04/05/2007 13:03

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Rhubarb · 04/05/2007 13:06

Has anyone ever left their children in the garden playing whilst they were in the house? Good grief someone could have snatched your child from over the fence!

Or perhaps your child has slept in a tent in the garden - how irresponsible! Or in a crowded playground whilst you chatted with other mothers?

Oh how easy it is to point the finger whilst smugly smothering your own children.

I have left my children asleep in a hotel room with a baby alarm whilst me and dh have had a drink in the bar. It's a risk you take but the chances of them being abducted are slimmer than them being run over whilst holding your hand on a pedestrian crossing.

A paedo who had abducted and killed a girl was once asked if there was anything the mother could have done to have prevented him kidnapping the girl (from a busy fairground whilst the mother was distracted), he replied, maybe if the girl had been strapped to her mother, but then again he mused, he would have probably just killed the mother too.

We don't know what went on here. But I suggest all the smugger than thous take a hike and hope to goodness that nothing happens to their precious charges one day that will make them rethink their judgementalist attitudes.

And I'm sure we all sincerely hope that this girl is found safe and sound. The parents must be going through hell, without the added insult of being judged on their parenting skills.

ELF1981 · 04/05/2007 13:07

This is very sad. I dont want to judge. I hope she is found very quickly and safe.

What her parents must be going through, I cannot imagine.

Kelly1978 · 04/05/2007 13:07

hear, hear, rhubarb

NoodleStroodle · 04/05/2007 13:08

Hear hear from here to Rhubarb.

(Are those on the moral high ground ever going to let go...)

LIZS · 04/05/2007 13:08

well said Rhubarb.

DeviousDaffodil · 04/05/2007 13:09

Hear hear Rhubarb. There but for the Grace of God go I.

ComeOVeneer · 04/05/2007 13:10

As usual the voice of reason rhubarb.

ELF1981 · 04/05/2007 13:11

Rhubarb - haven't read all the posts but whenever anything like this happens, there will also be those who said they'd never do whatever it was that caused the situation or those who have done it and see no issue.
Risks are small but still risks - its up to the parents in question as to whether they take them, and this is one instance when I can say that I wouldn't.

fannyannie · 04/05/2007 13:11

indeed well said Rhubarb - infact as I type DS2 (3 1/2yrs) is out in the garden while I'm sat up here with the window open so I can here him.

amyjade · 04/05/2007 13:12

Well written Rhubarb, totally agree with you.
Some of the comments on here really make me angry!! lets hope none of the child's family or friends use this site!!
Praying the poor little mite is returned safe and well.

ELF1981 · 04/05/2007 13:12

having said that, just because I wouldn't leave my child in the hotel room while I'm having something to eat, it doesn't mean that I dont do other thing that people would disagree with.