This is so very sad.
I have aspergers, diagnosed 18 months ago, and have just come out of the worst depression I've had since I was a teenager due to my exDH and I separating. It was an amicable split and the right thing to do, but the stress of such a huge life change was more than I could cope with. I now see a psychiatrist and have an occupational therapist as I was high risk of self harm and suicide (soon to be discharged as I'm no longer experiencing any urges), yet not one HCP involved in my care has linked the depression and manic episodes to aspergers. It's been completely disregarded.
As a teenager I attempted suicide 8 times and self harmed in response to my physically and emotionally abusive home life. It sounds all very dramatic writing it down but it wasn't. I'm a quiet person who keeps everything in, imploding when it all gets too much and the people around me are bewildered as they didn't have a clue I was struggling. I was given the label borderline personality disorder which didn't fit but the HCP's didn't have the knowledge to correctly diagnose aspergers at the time.
I hope research into autism and life stress is funded in order to make life more manageable for people on the spectrum. If I had been able to go to the gp and say 'I have aspergers and I'm getting divorced, please support me through this', perhaps I would have been more able to function over the last year.