Yes the Church is guilty of a cover-up of abuse. Again, I don't think the intentions there were deliberate, just naive. But it does need a shake-up and apparently things have changed in that respect now. The Church does hold up it's hands and says that it has done things wrongly in the past. I guess that's one of the reasons I respect it so much.
As for condoms, yes they should allow use of condoms, not just in places like Africa, but everywhere. However they should not stop looking to change the attitudes of people in regards to sex. The Aids problem is camoflaging other serious problems in those countries, and we need to be looking at re-education. When people say that the Church refuses to sanction condoms, they forget to look at the brilliant work the Church does in other areas to try and stop the spread of Aids. You do need to look at the bigger picture.
Of course friends hmb! I've enjoyed our debate!