It's so interesting to read the perspectives of people who've worked with charities and understand the financial aspects. I feel much better informed (ie a tiny bit informed) after reading this thread.
I just wanted to make a point though about the 'woo bollocks acupuncture' stuff. I hold no brief whatsoever for woo bollocks, but at the moment I remain open-minded about whether CB was genuinely trying something quite radical here.
As we've all heard, her approach was essentially that these children have been under-parented, or not parented at all in any effective way. And she was trying to make up for that in KC's work.
So for a kid who simply hasn't experienced loving, non-sexual touch from a trusted adult, 'woo bollocks acupuncture' might be genuinely therapeutic in an entirely non-chi sort of way.
For a kid who's never been given even 50p's worth of pocket money - never gone to the corner shop to buy sweets - never had Christmas presents - never been taken shopping to buy new shoes: cash handouts could be about more than just the cash, they could be a genuinely loving gesture. Someone thinks you're worth spending money on. Someone trusts you enough to give you some money, just because.
And as an extrapolation - her principle of never turning a child away - well loving parents don't turn their children away, do they. However much trouble they're in or however shitty they're being, or however low on cash the parents might be that month.
Obviously in the hardnosed world of contracts and so on this approach is unsustainable.
But maybe leaving thousands of kids to fester in hideous home environments, at the mercy of local authority social service department who simply cannot cope, is morally unsustainable.
So I've still got some sympathy for KC and CB. I still think the principle of unconditional love that they were trying to offer is a noble one. Yes, financial competence would have helped them to stay open, but there does seem to be a fundamental tension between financial stability and the sort of unconditionality that KC was aiming for. I'm not sure how that could ever have been resolved.
Meanwhile, kids are still growing up in environments most of us would be horrified by. Today there's one less agency to help them.