I chose to have a home birth with my DD. Very comfortable pregnancy, felt that I could do it, but was totally open to transferring if need be (and half-expected it – I had a bag packed). The local MLU opened a few months after DD was born, and had that been an option I may well have chosen it. I think I would have hesitated to go for hb if we weren’t so close to the hospital – 10 minutes and multiple potential routes there.
I think it is a totally personal thing and definitely not right for everyone. All births carry a risk – if you overthink it, it’s terrifying whatever context you choose to give birth in.
I had two midwives with me at all times (and 4 for 45 minutes, as there was a shift change and the first lot were hoping to see the baby!), which made me feel a lot safer than the stories I’ve heard of women being left alone in active labour for hours. And I also felt safer being out of reach of hospital infections, as others have mentioned.
All this said, I would never suggest it’s ‘better’ to have a hb or the right choice for everyone. I’m 15 weeks now with DD2 and I will go through the same decision-making process as last time. Despite a fantastic experience with DD1 I am not set on hb again until I know the full set of risks for me personally. Also, if I was in more pain than last time (i.e. that couldn’t be managed with TENs and G&A,) or felt fearful in any way, I would be in hospital like a shot!
FiveFingerDeathPunch - I’m not sure why you think that a midwife attending a home birth would be ‘inexperienced’. My lead midwife was extremely experienced and did an amazing job coaching me through a two-hour pushing stage. I felt totally safe despite my long labour as I felt that she was erring on the side of caution all the way, suggesting that she would call an ambulance if I went on for any longer in order to avoid putting the baby at risk and eventually giving me a very expert episiotomy, with even more expert stitching directly afterwards.