Hello everyone,
I hope this is the right place to post this, I'm brand new on this site and don't know much at all about how you lot run things around here. I only ended up here because my sister told me that you might have an interest in my story. Maybe you've even seen me on the news or in the paper lately, especially if you're in Wales.
Basically, I am a Welsh man who who spent ten years living and working in New York. During that time I qualified as a special eduction teacher and worked for six years in the NYC public school system teaching adolescent students with emotional disturbances and autism. I worked in the famous District 75, the city wide school district that serves students who, for whatever reason, are not able to succeed in the general education setting.
As part of our work on literacy I used to take my guys to the Grand Army Plaza library in Brooklyn every week. While there I came to know a library manager who I thought was especially good with my students. When she finally took her glasses off and let down her hair I also noticed she looked pretty fine and luckily for me we were married not that long after. Soon we had a son. We decided it was time to leave NYC, we wanted to raise him close to family, as a Welshman and applied for a UK spousal visa for my wife. It was refused on the grounds that we did not make enough money and we were essentially the kind of people who might come into the country and start claiming benefits. Our US income, our qualifications and professional experience, our history of having never claimed benefits and our son's right to live in the country of his citizenship were all totally disregarded. I am now in the UK seeking to establish myself but she was forced out of this country and is now back in the US, my son in tow. There is no end in sight for us right now, I don't know how long this situation will continue.
We are victims of a very recent and radical change in British law instigated by the current government so I suppose I am writing this to raise awareness of our case in particular and of the social implications of that policy in general. You will hear much from senior government officials about protecting families and all that jazz but if you take nothing else away from this, just know that all that is a fiction. I have learned at my cost that they don't care about the family at all, it's just noise.
I have started a blog which I invite you to check out:
firstimpressionsofexile.blogspot.co.uk/