@Maryz good posts! The adoption process you described in one of your posts was correct, Italy has a similar horrible process for adoptions. In fact, it is very difficult for an Italian couple to adopt an Italian child.
Many of the Italian children end up staying in a foster care home forever (the translation from Italian would be orphanage, I know it sounds terrible!).
The child is NOT an Italian citizen if born in another country. Not automatically. You need to file the papers to the embassy, both parents. Am I wrong or the father is not even Italian? :/
If you are a child of an Italian couple, living in UK, automatically you have British citizenship. A child of a Italian friend, married to an Italian man, both here for less than three years, has a 2 year son who was born here.
Her son HAS British citizenship, I am 200% sure about it (saw the papers!).
Therefore, who wrote above that you need a 5-year residence status for the child to be a British citizen had the wrong information.
Concerning the outcome on the Italian side, I had a chat with my mum and she told me what the Italian tv is showing.. Well, they all agree child should stay in UK. This lady was deemed as unsuitable for parentage for two other children and the lady's parents declined to care for the third one publicly, therefore this little baby would be up for adoption in Italy too.
I am just filled of sadness ;( a baby that nobody in her family wants ;(