Bloody Hell - Angelina Jolie

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Have just seen this on the news:

BBC News

Poor woman. Must be terrifying to be given 'odds' like those. What a terrible decision to have to make, but the right one I think.

ronald you haven't read my posts. I make it clear the issues are with the press coverage. I have absolutely no feelings about AJ , i know nothing about her apart from her press image and the fact I happen to know it may not be all it seems, and i think it would benefit from some perspective. so would you

copthall

i disagree.

Your issues weren't with press coverage though they moved there over time

you came onto the thread to immediately raise your eyebrows at Jolie's charitable work

You then focussed on how Jolie's decision to have a reconstruction might make others feel.
A reconstruction was an option open to her and she decided to take it. Same for others who have the option open to them. They make the best decision for their circumstances given their options. Her having choice and making a choice does not affect anyone else.

You then posted about her choices for reconstructive surgery and describe them as unnecessary. Perhaps unnecessary or inappropriate for you. Perhaps entirely necessary, in her opinion, for her. Necessary could be for any number of reasons but surely quite wrong of you to comment. Would you comment in the same manner about anyone else's choices after preventative breast cancer surgery?

You said she wasn't a saint.
Unnecessarily so as certainly no one on this thread was exalting her.

Although you described the operation she went through as 'gruelling' you then denigrated the press for doing the same.

Many of us and the press did describe her as brave and inspiring.
I think making the decision to have a double mastectomy as a preventative measure does take bravery. All cancer treatment requires bravery.
I think it was inspiring and brave that she chose to speak publicly about making the decision and her treatment.
No one, anywhere, assumes that Jolie's situation is worse than anyone else's experience. I'd assume that most people assume that she had the very best 5 star experience that a movie star's money could buy.

Questioning her son Maddox's adoption is just insensitive, unnecessary and cruel.

That's my perspective on some of your outpourings. As I have said I hope it has helped you in some way to treat another person undergoing preventative cancer treatment in this way.
It has made for unpleasant reading imo.

Morning.

We know that this is a very emotive thread and we wish all of you well, but if you could take the time to think of our splendid talk guidelines we'd be very grateful.

Thank you.

MNHQ.

Thank you. Timely intervention by JulieMumsnet.

Please let's keep this to the very important issue of someone making a decision re a cancer gene.

Let's also be positive too for any women going through or about to go through such a step.

I think that cancer can make you strong - it can also weaken you to the core. It can have many many complex effects.

However, a diagnosis that is never wanted does change your life. It is deeply frustrating to be exhausted. I can see my garden taking control - I went out today, pulled out a few weeds and then felt worn out. I hate that my body is robbed of vitality and yes, there are times when I could kick a wall. I also have no idea what I would have done in AJ's position - really and truly. It's a huge step to take. But I hope that I means she lives to a great old age, with floods of grandhildren.

That's what I wish for all of us, really. I am a bit of a hippy at heart.

Grandchildren. Told you I was tired!

When I think of Angelinas "press image" this is the kind of thing that springs to my mind. She's not some spoilt A List celeb doing more harm that good. I don't know where some people are getting their info from. Read this article. It's exactly how I imagine her to be m.guardian.co.uk/film/2013/may/19/angelina-jolie-film-bosnia-blood-honey

I probably shouldn't respond, this is all getting out of proportion but as an academic I am quite rigorous about my sources, and in this case it is a widely respected expert on Cambodia. From my previous link " according to Stephen Heder, a historian and former consultant at the U.N.-sponsored tribunal for the Khmer Rouge, Jolie either knew or should have known what she was getting into.

In Samlot, the former communists ?have built on their power as insurgents in the 1980s and 1990s to enrich themselves while also becoming members of the ruling Cambodian People's Party, proclaiming their loyalty to Prime Minister Hun Sen, himself a one-time Khmer Rouge. All of this is common knowledge in Samlot and well-known throughout Cambodia,? Heder, now at the School of Oriental and African Studies in London, wrote in an email.

?While all the specifics may not have been known to Jolie, she must have known or should have known that doing business in Samlot meant working with former ranking Khmer Rouge who were necessarily involved in the regime's crimes against humanity and war crimes.?

Stephen is a much published historian specialising in Cambodia having worked as a journalist there in the seventies and stayed on to play a key role in preparing for the war crimes trials. Here is a good article on his credentials ecccreparations.blogspot.co.uk/2009/03/interview-with-steve-heder-2001.html

Thing is that real life is often ambiguous isn't it? I am perfectly prepared to believe she has done good things in one place and for whatever reason, failed to be quite so effective in her efforts elsewhere. There is certainly a big gap between real life and the press reporting of it, all distorted through the lens of society's values, the agenda of the press , people's management and manipulation of their image etc so that we can't possibly know what the "real" Angelina Jolie, or indeed any other celebrity / public figure is like unless we know them personally.

No - I shouldn't respond either - but I really thought we had moved on/back to the important subject in question.

You are quoting news which is two years old. It has since been revealed that the person who categorically said AJ had knowledge of an ex Khymer Rouge person when she bought the land, is a employee with whom she was in dispute over money. This person clearly had an axe to grind. Also AJ put on the money and it was her lawyers who put up the money.

But clearly - no matter how many times people say it - it is not appropriate to start bringing up old tenous things in a person's past, when we are talking about a current issue. What the hell is it relevance?

Breast cancer. That's what we are talking about - not some long sodding debunked story.

Aagh, well I will continue to believe academic peers and those I have met in Cambodia and other parts of Asia where the story of Jolie's naivety in getting embroiled with several shady characters is well known and understood, and her image is not quite so glossy,
and Jolie fans can continue to believe whatever they like. At least the filming she did there has brought much needed tourist dollars to Siem Reap, and helped NGOs who really are doing some tremendous work including running the hospital there which is rebuilding Cambodia's medical infrastructure so that women there have some chance of treatment for Breast Cancer. It would be nice to think that after this episode Jolie may be alive to the very real issue that in large parts of the world, where those without money cannot access decent medical care, Breast Cancer is a death sentence. One thing you, I and Jolie have in common is that we are very lucky to be able to access treatment at all. Now that is an issue I can get passionate about....

copthall at best all Heder is saying is that the area is/was controlled and owned by a former high ranking officer in the Khmer Rouge who is suspected of being involved in war crimes.
Though there have been repeated efforts over many years he has not been tried for his crimes.
Therefore unfortunately the only way for anyone to help in that very impoverished area is by purchase of the land to take it out of his hands.

Or else what? Leave the people there in hopeless hopeless poverty? Hope someone else does it?

I see nothing wrong at all in what she has done. Again it seems like a wise decision.

To be honest I was always a bit meh about la Jolie. My brother said she was great but I was moved neither way.

I have been dismayed by how mean you have been about her at a time when it seemed completely unnecessary and cruel to comment.
I'm glad to see that you are somewhat backing away from some of the worst of your raised eyebrows and accusations by blaming press reporting.

Here is the foundation

Make up your mind. One minute you are saying that filming there bought in much needed money to build hospitals which will give women a chance to get treatment and in the next you are saying that now AJ is openly talking about it she might be made aware of the fact that there are women in the world that can't access treatment? wasn't that the whole point of her coming out and announcing it. She can't win with you, can she?

That's not in response to you Ronald.

I should say that the filming there by the Director of Tombraider, and bringing the glory of the temples there to people's attention, bought in much needed tourist dollars......

Way to go