I work in this sort of field so would like to add my tuppence.
I think that DV needs to be debated properly again...
I think that ethics and morality need to be thought about again.... Anyone who steals what is not theirs, tax evasions, cheating ministers, those who think they should be able to live and not contribute while others aren't able to....lots of things to be thought about.
The idea of having children you cannot support needs to be thought through.
Men having children they abandon to women needs to be discussed.
Women having children with men they don't know properly...
The use of contraception and responsibility....I realise that accidents happen of course but what happens after that? Who pays? I reckon it is principally women and the state who pay.
I have also been personally very hurt by working on behalf of those who have a better lifestyle than I do, yet I have suffered quite extreme abuse and am quite hard up but still work full time and pay my way, yet have a lot less than people who claim houses in areas I can't afford to live in, and who bear no responsibility I life set against the responsibilities I shoulder. That has hurt me and angered me. I feel tired and would like time off work but can't afford it. I would also like a baby but can't afford one and certainly couldn't afford to stay at home and be a mother which I would love to do, yet day after day I facilitate other people to do this. It is against my principles to claim money for a baby I chose to have when I can't afford to pay my mortgage if I had that baby.
On the subject of this man being abusive to women, I am delighted that yet another high profile case has hit the news because we need to read it again and again to get the message out the that men are still abusing women.
And if we can also get the message out that you are supposed to take responsibility for children you have, that wouldn't hurt either.
I think a benefits system is needed for people who are vulnerable but I don't think it should be a choice. I think it takes away from those who do not choose but need it.