Eldests 1st school was 45intake so
30youngest reception
15oldest ie pre xmas b day in r1 with 15youngest in year 1 reasoning is only few months between them.
year 1 the middle 15 ie my child feb combined with 15eldest that were in r1 and wasent until year 1 really noticed differences not so much in terms academics as they were other class has no idea at time but confidence/maturity.
Eldest went from being oldest in reception to youngest as jan was cut off.
Her confidence dropped and it was brought to my attention by summer term she was struggling academically.
They had started setting them on tables.
everyone knew each others reading levels and she would cry and say older ones made comments that she was reading baby levels.
Shes just average I guess but was in bottom table for literacy and numeracy in large class of 30 she found it hard to hold her own.
The youngest 15 who were in r1 in reality had better year as split keystages meant ta would take reception ones to play and lot of the teaching was done smaller groups and better teacher than year 1s.
Also the eldest in her year had better teacher in reception. reception was job share wiith main teacher being off sick a lot.
So felt when it got to year 2 the oldest 15 had advantage and the youngest 15 seemed on much higher levels than the middlle.
some july/august people were top table which then knocked daughters confidence further once again she was bottom table for literacy/numeracy and crying that she would never catch up.
also they kept 2 down and moved 2up to the 2/3 class so began to teak at whos in what class.
I have freind whos convinced her july born child is gifted and worriied she be held back in the 2/3class yet the school state its not ability its purly dob but they do ocasionally consider other factors.
Its not that I dont agree with setting/differentiating but it wa clear to all in class what each table meant and some in her clas were very competative and tad point cruel combined with some very pushy parents made me feel like nervous wreck.
So we moved her to small village school 20per year and although they have groups its far ore subtle and everyones an individual shes not lost in the system, shes getting extra help to ensure she catches up to where she needs to be.
I dont think its all age in our case was the school factors such as naughty disruptive kids, poor teachers, no consistant teacher all played a part hated fact mine was average and always in middle as felt in old school middle ones never got much attention.
She is big ie tall for her age and this benefits her in sport yet old school waseent sporty and maybe if they had praised her for that or her art rather than focussed on academics she would have been happier.
I have 2other kids sept born-worried she would have been better starting this year but cant start until next year already she seems more confident than eldest at preschool but think being younger sibling watching eldest makes her seem more grown up.
Youngest boy hes still not talking and 2 next month so near the younger end of year do worry about him.