Sunflower. It's finances. Or rather the lack of them. I can't afford to pay bus fares to college for DD AND DS1 at the same time. Not if I wish to actually feed my DC's too.
The lack of EMA is really going to hurt me!
It's also to do with Housing Benefit and Council tax Benefit rules, but if she has to do the 1-yr lvl 2 course, the 2-yr catering course, then the 2-yr Patisserie course, my money will run out when she starts the second year of the Patisserie course - no CTC, no ChB, HB won't cover all the rent, lose my 25% single person discount on my CT, no CTB to make up the shortfall.
I didn't plan on being dxd with a disability. I didn't plan for having my DLA and ESA stopped, and having to fight an indeterminable length fight to get it reinstated. I didn't plan for Gove to change modular exams to linear.
And where is the money to support my DD going to come from? My Neuro won't sign me as fit for work, do that's a no-goer. £75 maintenance a calendar month won't even cover her bus fares. She won't get HB to move out until she is 25 - so if she can't get a paid apprenticeship at the end of the 4 years when she will be 20, then I will have to feed and clothe her on fresh fucking air.
DS1 is clever enough to get bursaries etc when he gets to 16, due to how poor we are. DD - FUCK ALL AVAILABLE.
She won't be able to claim JSA because she won't be available to seek FT work because she will be a student, she won't get ESA if I do, because a parent and a child in the same Lone Parent household aren't 'allowed' to both be disabled. You are allowed to have a disabled parent AND a disabled child IF you are a healthy parent in a relationship with the disabled parent, but you aren't allowed to be a disabled Lone Parent with a disabled DC (or two in my case.
DD has had her only real chance of gainful employment snatched out of her grasp, and won't even be afforded benefit help to survive.
I can just about do it till the end of her 4th year at College, but tbh the period from her 20th Birthday in March to the end of that Academic year in July will be hard enough.
And as soon as she finishes, DS1 will need that money for bus fares to get to the 6th form college to do his A-levels. Local schools have no 6th forms.
DD NEEDS to be working even on a pittance wage by the September after the end of her fourth year in college.
And then just as DS1 heads off to Uni, I'll have the stress of trying to find a college course for DS2, who also has SN's.
Gove's a disabilist bastard IMO. 