My dc are lucky enough to go to a very sport orientated state primary and do some form of physical activity most days.However,a friends DD was talent spotted whilst she was ice skating and asked to join training for the national squad.As there is no rink in our nearest city,her mum has to get her and her sister up at 5am several mornings a week,to drive to another county to train,and asked permission from the headmaster to take her dd out 15 minutes early one day a week so she could attend after school training.He refused,until the trainer sent him a letter stating that the dd was a possible future olympian skater.The HT met the mum at the gates that very day,saying that it was a misunderstanding and of course her dd could go early.
However,friend's dd is the only state school pupil on the squad and her mum says that 'it isn't for the likes of us.' I dread to think of her fuel costs every week,plus it means that her other dd has had to give up activities because her mum can't be in two places at once.
My dds both ride and are lucky enough to have ponies at home,but we are fortunate in that it is cheap to keep them where we live,and I work part time,so am around to take them riding every day.They do ride 6 days a week unless the weather makes it dangerous,but it means no other clubs or activities as we can't afford either the money or the time for anything else.If we had to pay for livery and I worked full time,it would be very very difficult us to do it and for them to have progressed as far as they have.They love their riding and work hard at it so I don't mind the time and financial sacrifice it entails.