all activites from mother & toddler groups brownies music lessons, chess club football etc etc cost money and your time either being there or taking and fetching minimum seems to be £2 a week plus transport costs, while for brownies football etc there is almostly cetainly one within 5 miles, for more specialist things it is bound to be further away
apart from schools, for a child to excel they need parents willing and able to take to practice etc, several times a week, this sometimes seems to mean getting up at 5.30am driving 20 miles training coming home changing going to school coming home doing homework bed by 8.30 so can get p and repeat next day, also need to be willing and able to transport to matches fixtures etc, which will become further and further afield as gets better, county wide then countrywide
There maybe other siblings to consider it might be in super swimmers best interests to spend every weekend at swimming fictures but that may well be to detriment of little brother / sister either they do same sport in same place or does it become impossible for them to choose different sport or hobby
Andy Murray went to state school his mother coached him, his brother jamie is also good but there is a third brother, he is supportive of Andy but he may not have thought it that fair when younger being dragged around tennis tournaments which pay peanuts in prize money so even if wim whole tournament it does not cover costs,
excelling at anything often requires investment up front for unknown returns, some less risk than others paying for medical degree not much risk but most who train for any sport only to so at club level as hobby extra to day job, very very few will every earn enough from it to earn living, that is why sponsorship vital and removal of it without results
I think school should always offer competitve sport from early age ( speaking as someone who was nearly always last in sport) as well as other things that are good exercise like dancing
you can win and acknowledge winners without making others feel bad, we can not all be winners at everything. I would never let my 3 year old win everytime we play, I do let her win often, learning to lose as well as win graciously is best learnt early