Chibi do you dispute that there is a huge and growing attainablity gap between state and private schools? Do you not think this is lamentable?
Instead of blaming and resenting the sector that achieves, perhaps we should be looking at the sector that underperforms and REQUIRING that they adopt the attitude and ethos of the achieving sector. Just a thought.
I am a governor and believe quite strongly that the state sector fails children. Bottom line. Left wing mentality: that life 'should' be fair. That all 'should' have prizes. That self-esteem is something that 'should' be a concern. That people shouldn't be 'offended' and 'feelings' should be taken into account.
'Should' is a neurotic word.
Private school attitude*: fit in, or fuck off. Do as you are told by your betters. Acknowledge that they are your betters. Take your telling offs on the chin with respect, and don't answer back. We know what you are capable of, GIVE IT TO US. Work hard, and try your best in all things. We will challenge you and demand of you every single day of your life. What you put in is what you get out. Do it.
And out of that ethos, they dominate UK society in all things and no amount of bitching, moaning, and quotas will change this fact. Funny, that.
I personally think this imbalance is wrong. And what is wrong, is the state sector. Being in both sectors, I notice: that state teachers mouth platitudes and are quite removed. That private teachers are quite firm, but make themselves available to their pupils in a way that state teachers simply are not. The words, and the actions are polar opposite.
*and India, and China.