I'm in a similar position to Marge2. DH earns about 43k so we'll be affected by this, he does not share his money. He won't tell me how much he earns but I have a rough idea, I have no idea how much he has saved up but I think its quite a significant amount.
I totally get what someone else said that it shouldn't be the state's problem but instead my DH should sort himself out. Unfortunately its not going to happen. I suppose techically it is domestic abuse - financial abuse.
I'm lucky now that I do work part time and earn an OK amount - however I have to pay for all childcare, all food shopping, my car tax, garage bills, petrol, all of dd's clothes. There is not a lot left over (if any) at the end of the month and I'm really going to notice a drop of £30 a week.
A few years ago when I was out of work for 7 months I had no money coming in apart from the child benefit. DH wasn't giving me a penny, I had to dip into an insurance payout from when I was in a bad accident to put food on the table.
There will be women in this position long term, with no pot of insurance money to dip into.