"It absolutely should consider common outcomes of VB, such as faecal and urinary incontinence or loss of sexual function. These problems are particularly common where there is an instrumental birth. I don't believe those things were considered at all in my case. The outcomes of CS should obviously also be considered, and should include the likelihood of the baby having breathing difficulties afterwards"
I've had an instrumental birth, and pelvic floor and perineal damage which have led to minor urinary and faecal incontinence. I didn't consider this issue prior to my first child because there wasn't a choice to be made: an elective c/s wasn't a possibility on the NHS at that time. If I had been told about these issues I probably would have been strongly influenced by them.
What I wouldn't have known about was 1) that the experience of labour can be a profoundly positive life-changing event, even when the mother experiences injuries which continue to cause her problems after the birth. I also wouldn't have known that the majority of women who experience symptoms relating to pelvic floor damage in childbirth usually don't find it particularly distressing or life-limiting.
Women can look at facts and figures as much as they like - but what they can't know is how they're going to feel about their births or their bodies afterwards.
We live in a culture where even the normal pain of childbirth is presented as being pathological, even in the absence of tokophobia or PTSD. That's what I pick up from many of the posts on this thread: that labour is actually a horrible, dangerous event that it's quite reasonable to want to side-step. I think this view of labour as being intrinsically a negative experience because it involves pain is becoming more and more prevalent in our culture.
And I think women who're coming to childbirth for the first time pick up on this fear and disgust - and it WILL influence them in their choices, far and above what they read about the clinical outcomes of birth. They can't know what it's like to give birth, because, to be honest, you have to do it to know. Those women who've never been through labour haven't got a clue how they'd react to it, or how they'd feel about it afterwards. And nobody will say to them - 'you can have a very difficult labour, with lots of interventions and perineal damage, and STILL feel brilliant about it and have a happy, fulfilling sex life' - even though this is a very basic and real truth. First time mum's choices will be driven primarily by FEAR of something they don't really understand.
I think that's very sad.
And for those of you who are working on the assumption that the offer of planned c/s will only be taken up by a small number of people - I think you're wrong. In countries where c/s is affordable and available to low risk mothers the c/s rate is very, very high. In parts of Brazil, planned c/s accounts for over 80% of births. In the UK, where it'll be available for free I image there will be a very big take up, particularly among first time mums who have been scared rigid by what they know about standards of care for labouring women in many hospitals.