TheSilverSurfer --
In both the case of Baby P and Kyrha Ishaq there were male partners in the household.
Not necessarily the fathers of the victims, but they were there and they knew what was happening -- in fact they contributed to what was done to the children, and are now suffering the consequences.
This is taken from the DM, but here it is anyway '"Junaid told her 'you've won a prize, you've got a nice treat'. He gave her a jar of chocolate and told her to eat it all. It made her feel really ill and it made her vomit." (Junaid Abuhamza was the partner of Angela Gordon.). Here is a quote from a police officer who in investigated the case "The very people who should have been looking after Khyra, her mother and Junaid Abuhamza, killed her through systematic abuse." That's people, not person.
Do you remember the names of Stephen Barker and Jason Owen? Do you remember where they lived?
You didn't mention Victoria Climbie, but there was a man in her household too.
Your entire pov here seems to be nothing but one long Poor, Put-Upon Fathers' Rights/To Hell With Evil Mothers and To Heck With The Victims Too screed.
Money for prosecution of child abuse defendants is not diverted from anywhere else. It is earmarked specifically for such prosecutions and is used in a manner consistent with the guarantees of British law -- the Crown has a duty to protect all citizens and prosecute when crimes are committed. The Crown also has a duty to see that defendants receive representation in the interests of fairness and that appeals can be made.
Most taxpayers think it is money very well spent. MPS are also paid out of the public purse. Most people do not think that is money well spent in a lot of cases.
JH, your suggestion of parties agreeing to what they wish to publish about their case is laughably ridiculous. What you have in mind is in essence trial by public opinion of parties involved in cases of child abuse, even if those parties were able to peacefully agree on details to publish. The entire legal system, with anonymity of defendants and minors, etc., is set up to avoid that sort of lynch mobbism or the playing out in the public eye/newspapers of criminal trials. There is no need for a super system to guarantee accountability. What that would result in would be a massive increase in the sort of shenanigans you are engaging in, and the courts of the land would in effect not have the final word on criminal matters. Extralegal mayhem in other words, and the degradation of the courts.
You finish with a sly piece of innuendo 'It is well known that some family court judges simply ignore evidence they don't like...' -- it is completely outrageous of you to cast aspersions on the professionalism or the judgement of judges in this way in a public forum. Name them if you dare.