Highlander: I completely agree with you - geneticists aren't in the business of eugenics. And the current system is indeed very careful. And there is of course nothing unethical about screening per se, and as pointed out by posters above it is valuable in the way it is currently done.
Would that change if used across the population?
Would the information stay with the geneticists? At present there is a gentleman's agreement with insurers about such testing (allowing it to remain confidential), but that wasn't the case in the early days of HIV testing (all tests, including those with negative results has to be declared) and may of course change in the future. Because of course this would surface information about each possible parent and their future health.
And then there are the social consequences - if it became the norm, what would happen to those with adverse or iffy results? Would they be less desirable as partners? (Not everyone is going to be able to afford IVF, if children were a life priority for you, would you stay with a man with a risk factor of 1:4? 1:12? 1:50? 1:100?)
Who will hold this national DNA database?
BTW: does anyone know what proportion of disability arises from identifiable genetic conditions, and how much from eg random deletions in DNA or interference with growth?