Travis
I have four. We had a decent job in the family when they were all conceived though, and thought we always would have.
We will again indeed; this is a blip (and still an employed one before anyone starts).
It does get cheaper with each child; you re-use, put 2 in a room, tehre's very rarely 4 under school age so childcare starts to drop off or you might give in, be a SAHP or a hire a nanny.....
I woudln't ever encourage people to keep producing on benefits but equally many people already have a larger family when something goes wrong, or they experience contraceptive failure. I remember MaMo's threads when she conceived; I know it ws not a decision taken lightly! But if you employ someone to sit and look atevery case history- ah yes Sancti and her dh were both employed until.... it surely would cost mroe than providing support for the kids anyway?
there's also a very basic argument about bringing people within a society: if Mum and dad have eight kids they can ill afford we might all
preach but by cutting things too tight we run the risk of eight kids who feel they are not a part of society, that they have nothing to repay, no reaosn to work or behave responsibly: thus multiplying teh problem hugely. far better to provide adequate cover and bring those children back into the responsible fold, no?