- we had a house and a car that we couldn't sell.
House was in negative equity - plus needed work doing to it and no-one wanted to buy it, we had car that we couldn't sell either - it had been on HP when we were doing well but it wasn't worth enough to pay it off.
If you read the article you'll see that they have since sold the house and moved into rented and managed to find work.
Sometimes you really ARE stuck between a rock and a hard place - I know - we were there. £15 to feed us for a week plus nappies, for weeks, mortgage not being payed, bills not being paid. We had the house and the car - but no-one wanted to buy those
We rolled up our sleeves, and got on with it - the only reason I never went and got a food parcel is because I didn't know about them.
No - we didn't "over stretch" ourselves - we were comfortable and then it all fell to pieces when a business failed. We lived like that for about 9 months without claiming a single penny in benefits either.
It was attitudes like yours that made it all the more harder. People looking at us from the outside thought we were making excuses. I can assure you there were no excuses,just a hell that we couldn't escape from