It might be slightly off topic but is it really sexual assualt/ criminal to have consensual sex without full disclosure about who you are? This is like the "rape because he claimed he was Jewish and I wouldn't have slept with him otherwise," story. Can we really claim to be assaulted because someone wasn't what we thought they were - does this apply to their salary/ age/ backstory/ capacity to be a twat, or just gender and religion?
Sorry but I think that "persuading someone to consent to sexual intercourse" is not a crime or we would all be in trouble (my bedroom isn't normally as tidy, nor my legs as perfectly shaved, for example). Neither is pretending to be a man criminal, who decided the combination amounted to illegal activity?