babbilicious- I have just read what your midwife said about missing appointments!
Illegal??
Sorry, but that is surely a load of crap, and suggests your midwife had a bit of a power complex!
i have had to cancel midwife appointments with my hospital midwife- due to the fact even making the earliest appointment possible, it is always over 2 hours before i get seen. Not everyone has on tap child care, or is having their first baby. And twice they said checking my urine wasn't necessary- cue inevitable uti, and kidney infection
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This is in contrast with making an appointment with my gp- half hour wait max, can still get my urine and bp checked, and sort out prescriptions at the same time etc. The midwives aren't interested in making sure my depression is under control, for example. Had bugger all with getting attention- it was about getting basic treatment, without taking half a day to do it! (My gp has seen me throughout my last 2 pregnancies, and now this one as well). And i've never seen the same midwife twice, so hardly continuity of care!
Don't get me wrong- in my first two pregnancies my shared gp/midwife care was great. This time round, after a 4 year gap, it seems to have changed totally and not for the better.
I wonder if she meant that legally your employer can't refuse to let you havetime off for ante natal care (within reason)?
Threatening you with Social services- bloody hell!!!