Thanks breadmakers, I will try out both methods.
We have just had our usual Sunday row where one parent complains the other didn't handle a dc in right way. Feel very upset walked round block bought lots of heavy groceries, thumped home, shoved themin cupboard and feel a bit better for emotional outburst etc. Dh has done all the right things today, but somehow always manages to SAY the wrong thing to me. He has now put the kids in front of telly again to get his own back on me I suppose I should laugh at our childish skirmishes. Anyway, now he is looking after kids for rest of day at his own request, and I am going to go upstairs and read my book.
Anyway no need for advice ladies, I know exactly where I'm going wrong.
Otherwise, kids are fine and we went to a lovely lovely film called Madagascar 2 which was fantastic, loved music and everything.
And I feel better NOW after my outburst.
Wow, at hallpainting, and hello Starbear and Spider. Birds, are there any cats to scare them? Sometimes the reason they don't linger.
There I am giving advice already. Must stop meddling.