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December Flylady - Fledglings fluttering towards the Festive Season

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ExquisiteDecorating · 30/11/2025 23:04

Well, here we are — Christmas is this month. Yikes. But fear not, lovely Flyladies — we’ve got this (mostly).

This thread is our little corner of calm amongst the chaos — a place to cheer each other on, share small wins, and occasionally moan about the state of the laundry mountain. Whether you’re shining your sink for the first time or just trying to keep the kitchen table visible for more than an hour, you’re in good company.

The Flylady system is all about baby steps — 15 minutes at a time, routines that mostly stick, and being kind to ourselves when life happens (because it always does). Pop in, post your list, or just lurk with a cuppa — everyone’s welcome. Let’s make things calm and cosy as we head into the festive season proper.

Kettle’s on. Who’s flying today? ☕🕯️🧺
This is a long running thread, but we are a friendly bunch and all are welcome to join in. Please ask if you don’t understand anything.

Do NOT sign up for the Flylady emails - there are too many. I have done this so you don’t have to. The Flylady website is not working very well any more so I will copy over from the emails in the mornings and we will get through together.
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There are Baby Steps for starting out, add one thing at a time to start good habits and routines.

There are 5 zones that we will rotate through, don't worry about finishing it all this month, it'll come around again next month! Flylady is NOT about perfectionism!
Zones:
Entryway, porch and dining room
Kitchen
Bathroom and one other room
Master bedroom
Living room

Daily missions: each day of the week has a different mission. Then there’s:

Monday: Home Blessing (or as we call it, home bleugh)
Tuesday: plan & play
Wednesday: anti-procrastination
Thursday: errand day
Friday: clean car & purse out a week. It's also date night (with your significant other, or friends, or yourself!)
Saturday: family fun day
Sunday: renew your spirit

Common acronyms we use:
LOL: load of laundry (washing is certainly NOT funny!)
DW: dishwasher, we are not rotating wives by any means, although an extra pair of hands could come in handy sometimes 😆
LMS: lose/lost my shit
DNLMS: did not lose my shit
There are more, feel free to ask us to explain something. I'll try to update links every day, although if you can, there is an app, but I don’t think it’s working very well either.

Given the broken-ness of the app and website I would advise you not to spend any money on Flylady apps or purchases (we are mostly UK and she’s US based in any case). Sorry Flylady.

Links are below 👇

You can also check out the Facebook page Zones:https://www.flylady.net/d/zones/ Baby Steps: https://www.flylady.net/d/getting-started/31-beginner-babysteps/

The Current FLY Zone | FlyLady.net

https://www.flylady.net/d/zones/

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Searchingforsparkle · 29/12/2025 12:57

It is sad when they move past childhood phases @CherryogDog , I went up to bed last night and could hear my 19 year old and 9 year old giggling (it was after midnight ) and I just stood on the landing listening , knowing how special it was and treasuring the moment. I'm not quite ready for the choas stage of life to end but I'm definitely not having any more children! I'll wait in case I'm lucky enough to become a grandparent 😂

Alwayslearning25 · 29/12/2025 13:10

Tada
🎉Put away laundry that had become a permanent feature (but put odd socks to one side to do later)
🎉15 minute room rescue. Tidied up living room toys and wipes down table from lunch.

Might have a nap now. I'm 'back to work' tomorrow. I have 3 spread out work days until kids are back at school and nursery on the 6th.

Alwayslearning25 · 29/12/2025 17:03

Cleaned bathroom, bath, sink and screen

ExquisiteDecorating · 30/12/2025 09:14

Agree about the passing of childhood phases, sad but also nice. So on Christmas morning DH and I got up around 8 as usual on a day off. The DCs had rolled in from the pub about 12.30 so didn't appear till around 10. Which threw the whole morning off a bit. On the other hand I'm very glad the days of them waking at 5am are over. But I did used to love it waiting till they were asleep and filling up their stockings and then them bringing through to open on our bed. Happy days.

So, we are nearly at the end of the month. It's Tuesday so it is Plan and Play day.

Our mission is to go high in the living room, get a feather duster and dust door jambs, tops of pictures, curtain rails, light fittings etc.

Does anyone want to pick up the thread leading for January? Is it working in this format with no links? I don't mind carrying on in this minimal fashion, but it is really too much effort to dig out the daily info for babysteps every day as well as the missions and daily focus. I wish FL would get her website sorted again, the new one does have up to date missions (the app has today's mission too) so maybe they are working on it.

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DillyDeclutter · 31/12/2025 09:55

Morning, i'm happy to do January and i'll have a go with links etc. Unless anyone else wants to volunteer more!

Cleaned the utility out yesterday (out of sync with Flylady), feels lovely every time I go in there! Planning to sort the conservatory today.

DH has been doing DIY jobs around the house, I do find it annoying that I've spent an hour doing stuff that will have undone itself next week whereas DH's 20 minutes putting up a new ceiling rose will be there for 20 years (and I'll have to dust it!)

THATlittlechristmascracker · 31/12/2025 11:09

I'm here

Checking in for a NYE mad cleanathon! Must not start new year in minging house!

Hope you all had a lovely christmas, our was nice and chilled - much so compared to last year walking on egg shells around THATtwat!

Ta da
🧽 LOL rotated
🪣 Dry LOL away
🧹 Hob cleaned
🧽 Worktop #1 clear and cleaned
🪣 Games away
🧹 Ordered chest of drawers

ExquisiteDecorating · 31/12/2025 17:54

Thank you @DillyDeclutter there don’t seem to be links for the babysteps anymore but there are loads of content makers out there with lists, videos etc. The new look website does seem to be updating with the missions now which is useful.

Anyway, I just wanted to say Happy New Year to you all, this year has seen a few changes of circumstances on the thread, DCs off to uni, ThatTwat and CagTwat finally decluttered, the Cabbage family settling into parenthood, elderly parent into a nursing home for me. But I always find it comforting to come back to the thread and the routines when life feels as though it’s spiralling a bit, this is a lovely little oasis of calm, a sanctuary Flowers

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DillyDeclutter · 31/12/2025 21:00

New thread folks, see you over there

www.mumsnet.com/talk/housekeeping/5468318-flying-into-2026-january-flylady-thread?reply=149543956

Hope you're all having a fun NYE!

Haha . . . Edited because I forgot the actual link!

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