Well, I'm late to this thread now but incase it makes anyone feel better, here is my s0-called cleaning "routine":
I do dishwasher and washing machine every day.
Clean down kitchen work surfaces as I go.
Properly mop kitchen floor once a week, sweep it in between every few days.
Clean the two loos and sinks properly once a week. Otherwise just deal with skid marks and splashes as and when.
Hoover living room and playroom once a week. Under sofa kitchens every other week.
Hoover kids bedroom once a week.
Change sheets fairly often but certainly not more than once a fortnight.
EVERYTHING ELSE: as and when. Most dusting, stair hoovering, inside window cleaning, fridge cleaning etc takes place in the run-up to visits from my mum or the inlaws.
Have my oven professionally cleaned once a year! Costs £50.
We used to be able to afford a cleaner who came for 3 hours. I make sure I do no more than I ever expected her to do weekly. After all, I also do 50% of the tidying, 90% of the diswasher duties and 100% of the washing, hanging, folding etc in this house.
Am just not prepared to slave over housework as I do not enjoy it.