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How do I speak with my cleaner?

8 replies

cowsaysmoo · 31/12/2022 10:09

Hello, we have a cleaner that is with us for about a year now. She is a lovely and trustworthy lady but her cleaning is not up to my standard.
She would do bare minimum, not even hoover under sofa or bed unless I specifically ask.
I never complained to her that I'm not entirely happy with her work.
Before she started I gave her a list of things I want to be done on weekly and monthly basis, she replied it's standard stuff without reading it much tbh.
How do I speak with her now? I don't want to change the cleaner, I would like her to do better job.

OP posts:
Littlechickenhead · 31/12/2022 10:15

Unless you can communicate through telepathy, you’re going to have to just give her the list again and tell her each thing you want to be done and when.

ChangedmynameagainforChristmas · 31/12/2022 10:15

Start leaving her a note listing all the stuff you want her to do - instead of leaving her to decide - decide for her.

Newyear2023 · 31/12/2022 10:18

Just tell her what you want her to do in a respectful way.

BCBird · 31/12/2022 10:21

You are paying for a service. You need to tell her what you want her to do
This can.be done in a polite way. If u not happy about face to face then just let her know u are going to leave a list of jobs you would like to be done.

AltheaVestr1t · 31/12/2022 10:27

You just ask. Be specific - would you mind hoovering under the bed please? And get in the habit of asking if there's anything you are not happy with.

determinedtomakethiswork · 31/12/2022 10:58

Stop making this personal. She does a bad job. She had no intention of doing a good job right from the beginning. You need a different cleaner.

Pinkapron · 01/01/2023 18:17

Ask her if she has enough time to get everything on the list done in the time available.

HouseyHouse21 · 04/01/2023 21:41

You should say what you've said here. Once.

If nothing changes, then she simply doesn't have the work ethic or attention to detail you need.

It doesn't sound like a good fit tbh, as if she took any pride in her work you wouldn't need to have the conversation in the first place.

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