You are welcome.
Also don't forget to treat yourself. Maybe once a month go out with your girlfriends and unwind with a meal or movie.
Or even go by yourself.
I love eating out by myself or going to the movie: I get the biggest popcorn and a drink and sit there enjoying the movie and no one interrupting me.
I usually wait until the movie have been out a long time and go to the matinee showing.
This is from an article written from Michelle Singletary who writes for the Washington Post in DC:
"But you’ve got to have a safe pot of money that isn’t subject to the ups and downs of investing. I have two types of rainy-day funds. The first is my emergency fund. That’s money set aside for drastic financial situations such as a job loss. This pot of money could sustain my household for about a year without any income, meaning my husband and I could pay all our bills — mortgage, utilities, cable, food, school fees, transportation, vet visits for the dog, etc.
It’s important that you don’t just focus on saving for the major household expense categories. In my experience, it takes people a few months before they reduce their expenses after they lose income.
To arrive at what should be in your emergency fund, pull your bank statements and add up everything it takes to run your household for a month and multiply that figure by the number of months you want to have saved.
I know that a year’s worth of living expenses is aggressive if you’re new at saving. So, starting out, aim for just one month. Make the figure too high and it’ll be so daunting that you’ll give up. Then go for three months. You’ll be in good shape when you get to six months.
Hope this helps.