I am SO messy. It's unbelievable. I can destroy a room without even noticing. I have a real problem.
I spend quite a bit of time doing housework, but you wouldn't know it if you walked in my house. I know i could spend far less time and have much nicer house.
I've read a lot about adult adhd recently and it's helped me think about the stuff i really struggle with. Im incredibly inconsistent and can't stick to basic routines.
Im going to try to build up one habit at a time. Like flylady, but ill decide the habits. I will only add a new habit when i feel ive really nailed my last one.
I'm going to start with wiping down kitchen properly, doing washing up and dishwasher on before bed. That feels like a huge thing for me. I feel so scuzzy that i don't do it at the moment. I've done a couple of times recently and its blown my mind in the morning 
Wish me luck xx this could take years to establish!