My kids (boys of 3 and 7) like everyone elses have hundreds and hundreds of toys, all the toys have bits and all the bits get messed up. I am at the end of my tether with them, almost ready to chuck them all out and let them make do with lego. Half the toys aren't even played with, the other half are thrown around rather than used. I am failing utterly at keeping order and the mess is becoming depressing. What strategies have others used for decluttering/managing the toy mountain (and getting kids to actually play with their toys?)