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Is June the new January? - the Fledgling Flyers are doing their flaming best

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pushmepullyou · 31/05/2013 21:32

Welcome old and new fledglings to the June Fledgling FLYers thread! Smile

Thank you very much to castlelough for leading us expertly through May - I shall try not to be too haphazard with June, although I make no promises Wink

If you're overwhelmed by clutter and general household grub then join us as we (loosely) follow the step-by-step Flylady housekeeping system or languish in the naughty corner hoping to do better tomorrow Grin

As usual, we will be following the Flylady three-pronged approach:

  1. Baby-steps (a daily step to establish routines)
  2. Then baby-steps + 15 mins daily decluttering
  3. (And once decluttered) babysteps + daily missions and maybe even detailed cleaning in the weekly zones

For more information have a look here, although to avoid a cluttered inbox, we advise not signing up to the Flylady emails. The basic principle is little and often and don't worry about perfection (no chance of that here!).

Don't worry if you are behind; just jump right back in and it will all come around next month again anyway!

All the links for the babysteps and missions will be posted here every day and we'll all be here to cheer each other on and chat our way through the month.

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Swanhilda · 05/06/2013 16:59

SC to counter my previous words, if it was me I wouldn't be able to stand that amount of homework. But you are you, and you are different and seem very conscientious and motivated on dd's behalf. Personally I do anything to avoid homework. Having had loads as a child, put up with it, and yet have become a shiftless and idle adult!!!!

ToffeeWhirl · 05/06/2013 19:15

Swan - I would keep my son off if he was in your son's position. Really unfair of the school to make him sit and watch for hours whilst others compete. Poor boy.

By the way, you don't sound at all shiftless or idle!

Our kitten is sick again Sad. He has a high temperature, an eye infection, keeps sneezing and sleeps all the time. He is also underweight for his age. Vet thinks it is a recurrence of cat flu. I have a bagful of (unbelievably expensive) medicine for him and have to take him back for a check up tomorrow. He seems to think he'll be all right. I don't know what DS1 would do if he wasn't - he is besotted with him.

If the symptoms come back again after this, vet will check for other diseases...

Castle - thinking of you.

fudge74 · 05/06/2013 19:25

Hi all (hugs to castle)
I've got a bit better at this flying lark now - sold a load of old baby stuff at a market at the weekend and have drawn up a morning and bedtime routine list which is on the bathroom wall.
I also cleaned the fridge today - yay!
Will see how long I can keep it up, it's great to have this thread to post on thanks for all the support from you ' lifers' ;-)

fudge74 · 05/06/2013 19:35

Ps mercury I'm a MK girl well nearby anyway - loved the schools there but I'm up north now and its wierd how schooling is so different! Last year ds1 didFOUR different School entrance exams for the good schools- why don't they just do 11 plus!!! And don't get me started on the church schools...

fudge74 · 05/06/2013 19:36

Better go and do something now Grin

GoingGoingGoth · 05/06/2013 19:38

WhoKnows ouch! That sounds painful.

Swan more than a bit crap having to sit around all day. Could he take a book?

Toffee fingers crossed for poorly kitten, I'm sure he'll be ok.

Not seemed to get much done at all this afternoon
few bits of shopping
DD from school
Laundry in off line
Dinner
Dd to Woodcraft Folk - lots of fun doing parachute games in the park

To do
Stick DD in bath
Wash up and shine sink
Ironing
Load washer for the morning

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 05/06/2013 19:46

Swan - at what point will DS know whether he is competing or not? Or was that in the letter. I am very much against keeping DCs off school in general, but my blood would be boiling over this. Do you think DS would be able to keep up the pretence of having been ill if you kept him off?

SC - sorry, haven't followed all your posts completely and have lost track, but sympathies over what sounds like a difficult problem.

Toffee - fingers crossed for recovery of your kitten. Our neighbours new one made its way into our garden for the first time today and is adorable (I sneaked a cuddle while helping him get back onto the garden wall to go home, he had jumped down but couldn't get up again).

Doris - well done on your double fast day! Seriously, hope you feel stronger tomorrow.

FLying - I was at work today, but managed a bit after the school run this afternoon, tidied up downstairs floors and ran the vac round, er that's about it. Also did a few admin chores, which seem endless.

Oh, and good news from me, I passed my last OU module, got the results today and am getting back on track with my current one, had slipped a bit the last few weeks.

Engelsemama · 05/06/2013 20:19

Castle I'm so sorry to hear your news. Sending you a huge hug. x

Swanhilda · 05/06/2013 20:32

Who brilliant news about the module.

20 percent or maybe less of the pupils have been told that they will be spectators and not competing. On the other hand I can imagine the logistics of a big Sports Day are such that no PE teacher will be very interested in my PFB sob story, so I can't really be bothered to kick up a fuss. I pointed out to Ds1 that the unmusical pupils were forced to listen to him sing for two hours at school performances, but as he said that is only two hours, and they get to sing SOME of the hymns. The main criticism is that not only did they not get to do any exercise at all on Sports Day, but were also confined to the same spot throughout and not allowed to go and see different events.

Luckily ds1 is going on a Outward Bound trip with school this weekend to Isle of Wight so at least he gets a few chances to do sporty things which aren't competitive.

Today
cat has been for her neutering op, she is fine, staying overnight for a tenner so they can check her in the morning as well
a bit of Beavers helping
cooked chinese pork meatballs but soy sauce awol AngryGrin at last min
took ds2 for hearing test, they have referred me to Auditory Processing, but his hearing is complete normal mechanically ifysim - more boring referrals
cleaned kitchen
shopped for lots of groceries with ds2 on way home, he is v helpful!

Toffee I feel so relieved when I hear how much you love your kitten. I worry terribly that if my kittens develop some ailment their owners will ring me up vengefully or that they have just taken on a chronic condition they cannot afford to manage. I worry about FIV as their father was a roaming tom. Hope your beautiful kitten feels better soon. Ive told all owners to ring me if any illness develops so I can reinburse them or if necessary take kitten back. It is difficult to control nature and impossible to guarantee health I suppose, without locking a cat in a gilded cage.

LillethTheCat · 05/06/2013 21:09

Evening everyone.

Sorry about your news Castle Hope you managed to take it easy on yourself today.

Todays list
Shine sink done
2 loads of washing done
ring council done
appointment in town done

Tomorrows list
Shine Sink
Man from council coming to inspect source of noise
Ring RE volunteering position
Running club
possible baby step, depending what it is.
2 loads of washing again

swan Id be tempted to keep him off and actually tell the school why. Its not as if he'd be learning anything is it. Although I dont know how much trouble you would get into for that.

Toffee Hope your kitten gets better soon Sad

who Well done on the module.

Doris One of the few good things about feeling ill, the not eating much. Although you will need to eat when you can to regain some strength. Hope you feel better soon

Fudge Well done on the lists and decluttering. I should really make lists and I know its what Flylady says, but I find it easier to just have my own list and I use this thread for that. I should buy another book I think.

Bitchy Whoops about the knee. Hope it feels better soon.

Right got to dash DH is hounding me about watching something now.

See you all tomorrow everyone

KatAndKit · 05/06/2013 21:27

Well most of the flying today was done by the cleaner! I love every other Wednesday :) However, as a result of my decluttering missions she has been able to clean areas I normally keep her away from :) I am looking forward to when master bedroom is the weekly zone as there is far too much clutter in there.
The load of washing first thing every morning is working well and I have almost cleared the backlog by doing this. Sorting clothes for next day before going to bed isn't happening yet though but I'll work on that next week.

pushmepullyou · 05/06/2013 22:13

Links for Thursday 6th June....

The babystep is putting out your hotspots. A hoptspot is one of those areas of your house where clutter tends to accumulate. A key one here is on top of the fishtank. This babystep is one I do try to keep up with as I find it really makes a difference and spending a couple of minutes a day putting things back in their proper places helps keep the CHAOS at bay. The official flylady definition and advice is here

We're still in the kitchen and the mission is to wipe down the worktops. Even the bits behind the toaster/cereal boxes etc. As always the flight plan is here.

Thursday is errand day. Probably won't be many errands run here, although that's partly because I did most of the outstanding niggly ones today as part of anti-procrastination day.

Hope you're all remembering to drink your water Grin

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fudge74 · 05/06/2013 22:21

hey lilleth you are rightabout making your own lists - I copied out fly lady's lists but have already changed them to suit me more! and as kit mentioned the daily load of laundry really is a great idea - I'm adding that to my morning and night routines! getting clothes ready really helps esp on Work days Grin
flying is fab!
(sensible night time means I must go now)

pushmepullyou · 05/06/2013 22:44

I hope no one minds too much but I think I'm going to have to skip the roundup tonight. I've got a threatening migraine so I should probably go to bed and try to sleep it off.

Big wing flaps to all, and (hugs) for castle - been thinking about you today. Hope you are as well as you can be xx

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Asheth · 05/06/2013 22:44

Thinking of you tonight Castle So sorry to hear your news.

So today - sink shined, washing done, 2 min hotspot done, 15 min decluttering done, fridge wipe done (not a huge task this one as we cleared it before going away last week!) and huge pile of clothes put away! And finally wrote the email to my brother about our parents wedding anniversary that I've been meaning to do for ages....

Thursday's not a great day for errand day, as it's one of the days DS3 isn't at pre-school so anything out of the house takes ten times as long as it should! So might have to swap the days around a bit!

elliepac · 06/06/2013 06:51

Morning all.

Bad flying day yesterday with little achieved really but today is another day.Smile

castle I am so sorry to hear your news. Take your time and take care of yourself

whoknow congratulatons!

swan I would keep him off I think and I am a teacher as you know! I would be fuming about that! It is ds's sports day tomorrow. At his school, they make sure that everybody gets a race by practicing beforehand and placing them in groups according to speed. DS is in the bottom group, he is not sporty at all. However they also do a tug of war and they practiced this yesterday and he was the strongest! Bless him, he was so chuffed to come home and tell us he had been picked for something and that everybody thought he was really good at it. He normally complains that the 'football boys' are mean to him so he was beaming from ear to ear that he was better at something than them.

Better go and get ready.

Have a good day everyone!

MercuryRising · 06/06/2013 07:30

Quick list dump:
Make beds
Hoover downstairs
Dust downstairs
S and s
Lunches
Washing
Dw load etc
Swim
Nap
Night shift
Hot spot - living room
15m declutter junk drawer

Bbl to catch up with you all - have a great day!

Jamillalliamilli · 06/06/2013 08:30

Just about keeping it together here, it's an exam a day so everything else limping behind that as priority.

Castle thinking of you

Swan memories of d/s being told his 'team role' was to be the audience.

KatAndKit · 06/06/2013 08:33

Fairly good start today but awake far too early (another 4.30 nappy incident - am I giving him too much fruit or something?) Washing is on, DP has emptied dishwasher, sink and toilet have been S+S and the bed is made. Wearing ironed clothes again and have sort of done my hair.

To do:
Top up grocery shop at Aldi - walk will be my exercise
Make lunch
Put away clean clothes - perhaps iron 5 items if I get the time
Do worktop cleaning mission - shouldn't take long as some were done yesterday
Keep on top of washing up plastic baby items
Go to volunteer training course
Find driving licence. Where the heck could it be?
Go to hairdressers for colour and cut :) :) :) Long overdue.

If I get the chance I'll have a look in another kitchen cupboard and try to chuck out 10 items of clutter but our wheelie bin is full and isn't collected till Monday. CBA to drive to tip.

ToffeeWhirl · 06/06/2013 10:52

Katandkit - enjoy your colour and cut. I always regard going to the hairdresser as a mini-holiday Smile.

Just - an exam a day sounds stressful. That's sad about your DS being told his 'team role' was to be the audience Sad.

Ellie - how's the calorie counting going? I have shocked DH by giving up drink for the moment! Too many calories.

Mercury - great list - Flying, exercise and sleep are all on there!

Asheth - looks like a very productive day for you yesterday Smile.

Our kitten is a bit brighter this morning. He even found his voice enough to protest at being shut out of our bedroom. He's still not eating much though, so I'm heating up his food to make it smell more attractive to him.

No list today because I don't want to scare myself. The house is a tip. I think I will just do 15 minutes in each room in rotation and see where that gets me.

DorisShutt · 06/06/2013 11:05

Cuddle day with DS today with CBeebies and DVD's.

Feeling much better but still wobbly, so taking things easy.

Hope you all have good days!

ToffeeWhirl · 06/06/2013 11:21

Cuddle day sounds lovely, Doris. Good idea for you to take it easy after your nasty bout of D&V.

KatAndKit · 06/06/2013 11:35

Grocery shopping done
Lunch served
Driving licence finally located under a humungous pile of paperwork in my bedroom. When it is that zone my shredder will be getting a serious workout!

Jdub · 06/06/2013 11:57

hello everyone,
Well - LOTS to be done and not much headway actually made - my youngest has chicken pox so we are on spot counting duty!!
Hope you are having productive days xx

superfluouscurves · 06/06/2013 12:17

Yes, take it steady Doris and you too Castle if you happen to be lurking Flowers

Glad the small wee furry beast seems a bit better today Toffee

[Strong coffee for Kitkat]

Hope exams go well in your household Just My nephew takes his second A-level tomorrow.

Hope migraine withdrew its threat Pushme and that face is less numb following dishy dental treatment Goth

Glad the system is working for you both Fudge and Katandkit!

Whoknows many congratulations re: the module!!!!

Hope you are feeling better Swan and that you find cat OK on collection. Agree with Ellie and others. I would definitely definitely keep ds1 at home for sports day. It's not as though he didn't give it a go and try and support all the others last year. And 6 hours is far too long to be excluded from everything else, aimlessly wandering about. The school have mismanaged it. At the very least, those who weren't competing last year should be doing so this year. Or they could split it in to form or gender groups to make the even more manageable. Or if that's not possible for some reason, then pupils could take it in turns being "games makers" and "competitors" - the games makers could organise, adjudicate, act as starters, measure jumps and throws, make and serve refreshments etc. Absolutely no benefit to be had in feeling excluded for a day. Yep, quite Angry on your ds's behalf just thinking about it actually! I would keep him at home and send a forthright letter as to why (always easier to advise someone to do this, then actually do it yourself though I know!!) Think you are totally justified keeping him at home whether you are honest about it or not though.

Thanks for your advice re: dd. I'm really not that conscientious and motivated (honestly!) I've just sort of found myself having to do lots more than I would ordinarily have expected to do, owing to the system here (and believe me, I do far less than some parents!) . (And it takes much longer because my head is stuck permanently in various language dictionaries!!) Also, much easier with just one child to focus on. We have had some attempts at school refusal (usually at the beginning of a new term) but she does seem very content to go now. I don't know, it's the overall system that worries me I suppose, death by rote learning and fact sheet, and when she says she is not allowed to ask questions. Will keep pondering ....!!

Waves to Mercury Ellie Asheth Lilleth Honu Bitchy and everyone else!!

Well, I spent the morning waiting for hosp consultant appt, in clothes that are far too hot (too fat to get in summer ones). Stumped home feeling ravenously hungry, hot and bothered and fell on the only edible thing in the fridge which was a bowl of last night's pasta. Looks like I am going to fail on second fast day too!!

Still not speaking to dh either except when absolutely necessary (very immature behaviour I know!) because he refuses to apologise. And am being plagued by people on the phone asking me to buy things, and people at the door wanting me to give them money - the sunshine must bring them out. On the positive side, it is a glorious day and fortnightly ironing lady has worked her magic!! Need to sort out supper tonight and try and impose some kind of order on boudoir (woeful progress made during wk Blush)

Hauling my stumps away from the screen right now ...