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The minimalist quiche

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educatingarti · 23/01/2013 12:47

This is a new thread to replace the minimalist journey one which is nearly full!

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eminemmerdale · 22/02/2013 14:02

I think it's this weekend - have just put three things on it. Spent this morning sorting out the childrens cupboards - who'd have thought we had 14 bags/suitcase type items, two video players, a freeview box a tv and a stereo system hidden away.... All in the loft now Grin put dh's old but designer coat and a leather jacket on e bay and dimanteld ds's telescope for use by dd in a year or two. getting there...

blossombath · 22/02/2013 15:24

I think it'll be this weekend, too - IIRC they tend to be at the end of the month.

Great progress eminem, bet those video players are worth a fair bit, after all people need something to play the valuable videos Wink

becstarlightstarbright · 22/02/2013 15:43

Hello all! Queen glad that the redundancy is some kind of blessing albeit mixed. I am not enjoying my job at all at the moment and it's really busy which is why I haven't been around. I can't wait for this contract to end - I'm literally counting the days. I've got back from work so late at night that it's just been dinner and bed... Very little decluttering done this week but this thread had dropped off my 'Threads I'm On' so I wanted to say 'hi' so I don't lose you all!

But... thank you MinimalistMommi I've got a charity coming round next Friday to pick up about half of my list above. And thank you MrsPennyApple as I think I'm going to take your suggestion and take stuff onto the pavement with a 'Please take it - it's free' sign for almost everything else - going to do some of that this weekend and some next weekend. I might just put on the local Freecycle list that I'm doing that, just so that it's more likely to go...

When we've moved we really will be a family living in a small space - our flat is pretty tiny at the moment but the one we're moving into will be even smaller. It's going to be interesting but we're all excited about it. We've got so much to do before we move. Yikes.

Got to go, but hope to check back in over the weekend. Great to "see" you all.

MrsPennyapple · 22/02/2013 16:17

Er, you guys know you can "watch" threads, right? And you can bookmark where you've got to, and the thread will jump to your bookmark when you open it. (You have to set the bookmark up in Customise though.)

NotQuitePerfect · 22/02/2013 16:21

Hello just remembered something upthread which really made me smile - can't remember who, sorry, but somebody said that they were having a little "comfort de-clutter"!

I know exactly what that means! Even if you've had a rotten day filled with minor frustrations & disappointments, there is still comfort to be had in the knowledge that you've managed to get more stuff out if the house than you brought in.

Have a good (minimalist) weekend everyone Smile

Sokmonsta · 22/02/2013 17:08

Well the house is looking a tad less tidy today. Dh has been home and I've been on a course this afternoon. The cooked breakfast dishes are still all over the kitchen. A tea towel has ended up sat in a pan of oil. There's oil on the worktop.

The jobs I was going to do this morning in the 1.5 hours I had 'free' did not get done as dh wanted me to look at some stuff online and by the time we'd done that, it was time to give the twins their milk then dinner and for me to leave. Quite frustrating. Especially as now one of the older two has found some wax crayons and a tube of cream, and decorated their window and sill with it. Grr.

Guess my next mission is going to be to strip their room of everything other than furniture and work out what they are having back in there.

Dh is also slightly miffed. He left a teeny, tiny piece of plastic on 'my' windowsill. I decluttered it and now he can't find it. I have a feeling the piece of plastic may have ended up in the bin - well how was I supposed to know he needed it!

Teddimac · 22/02/2013 19:40

Ah yes, those mysteriously disappearing bits of plastic Sokmonsta Grin - well, if he'd put it away properly in the first place, etc, etc...

The DC have shown me up again this week, they very quickly and efficiently culled their soft toy collection by about a third all by themselves yesterday! To the extent that ExH picked a couple back out of the reject pile when he came to visit and said he they could keep them at his place (good to know it's not just me that's more sentimental about their stuff than they are!). The rest were swiftly dispatched to our nearest charity shop.

I've also had a thorough sort out of their wardrobe, but was shocked to see how many things DD1 had grown out of, so have actually had to go out and buy her a few bits and pieces. The outgrown stuff will go in vacuum bags in the loft until it fits DD2. Well, it will probably sit around in neat little piles for a few weeks days then go in vacuum bags in the loft...

As for this weekend, I am determined to gather together 'types' of toys from all over the house - ie all the lego in one place, playmobil, sylvanian families, etc. I know in my heart that this is an exercise in futility - DD2 in particular is a nightmare for collecting bits of this and that together in pretty little bag, which is then put in an old shoebox, then stored under the sofa, or my bed, or her pillow for several weeks until she notices something's missing. But if I can at least see what and how much we've got and make a stab at creating adequate storage for what the DC want to keep, I'll feel less twitchy about it all! And be far less likely to buy more...

LemonBreeland · 22/02/2013 21:44

Some great work continuing on this thread. Teddi I'm impressed with your DC. Although mine are getting better at letting things go.

Today I was out a lot of the day. Needed to take MIL food shopping. But whilst doing that got the large drawers to the dump finally, and also a bag of DHs clothes to the cash for clothes place. Another £7.50 in the coffers.

The Fireman Sam toys were collected first thing this morning too.

DH finally brought home the bookcase that we had bought for DDs room tonight. So that is now housing her toys and books that were homeless and making a mess of the house. This means I can now sell/dump the coffee table. Am looking forward to seeing the space in the living room. I may move the rocking chair from my bedroom into the living room, but it will still leave a lot of space.

I was discussing with Dh tonight where we could move the large suitcase in the bottom of our wardrobe to. DH said we should sell both of our large suitcases as we are unlikely to use them. We bought them when we moved back from NY and had a lot of stuff, but they are a bit too big for an average holiday. This will give us a lot of space in the bottom of my wardrobe and in the top of the DSes wardrobe.

I'm doing well on my mission for 40 items each week during lent leaving the house. I'm ahead at the moment.

Oops this has turned into a rather mammoth post. Blush

MinimalistMommi · 23/02/2013 14:16

Bec I'm really pleased for you about the charity! It's brilliant. And you moving into a smaller place, tell me everything! I find small space living sooooo interesting even though it makes me a dork How many DC do you have? How many rooms will your flat have??? I think I find the challenge quite interesting to 'make' it work Grin

SilentMammoth · 23/02/2013 20:39

Just checking in quickly, managed to trash our router do having internet woes! Great to hear from everyone!

Sokmonsta · 24/02/2013 09:47

Oh my dears I really, really need to get back on track! I seemed to stall on Friday and haven't got properly going again yet. Very disappointing as I felt like I was making such headway.

I have looked around the house and I think now our room is reasonable, it really is going to be time to tackle the living space again. The children's toys have just spread again. Ironing is piling up. Stuff is creeping back in.... It's got to go!!

Think that will be my project for next week. In between various appointments.

BoffinMum · 24/02/2013 09:53

I need to report that my loft purge is going brilliantly. I have probably got rid of half the stuff up there, and made something like £250 via Ebay, ClothesforCash, MusicMagpie, and so on.

As mentioned before, I'm building up three gorgeous memory boxes for the DSs with the really special things that really matter. The Martha Stewart website is good for memory keeping projects and this is proving really helpful.

Martha Stewart

I have also found enough used toys up there to last DS3 through two birthdays and Christmases, and this I am really proud about. Basically we had a Playmobil aeroplane and a Playmobil camper van, and I found that even though we had a few of the little parts missing, it was possible to order replacements really cheaply from the Playmobil website to make them complete. I was delighted by this! So I have polished them up ready for him. The aeroplane even had the box still.

I also found an IKEA dolls house and realised we had managed to keep all the furniture in the little drawer at the bottom. If I paint two of the walls with some white eggshell we have in the garage anyway, to remove the biro marks from DS2, it will look as though we bought it yesterday! He already has a little set of Goki people I bought in Bruges a couple of summers ago, and they fit perfectly into the little house. They are also a bit better than IKEA figures as they are posable, so they sit in the chairs really well. I am also trying to find little models of things he has got free with comics over the years that contribute to the house theme - for example we have a little plastic teddy in the right scale, and somewhere I remember him getting a little pot plant and pretend photo frame. I will round them all up and put them in the drawer as well. He will love it soooo much as he spends hours on pretend play at the moment.

Finally I found a LeapPad with about 5 or 6 books/cartridges that only needs new batteries. That is Christmas sorted!

In other news, the loft has zones now, like I planned - I have a slot between each of the trusses for vintage clothes I am not using at the moment, ski gear, Christmas, birthday party stuff, children's clothes for DC4 to grow into, spare household things, etc. It really is getting like a proper loft shopping mall up there, and I will be able to use everything before eventually processing it out and clearing it more or less completely. At that stage, I am planning to board it properly, with the help of my civil engineer cousin, and turn it into an ersatz yoga room. Oh yes! Grin

Sokmonsta · 24/02/2013 10:06

Boffin that sounds fab! At the moment I'm decluttering from the main house into the loft, to be sorted out from there. Glad to know it is achievable.

Grandmaw · 24/02/2013 11:06

I wish I could declutter - just don't like getting rid of anything. I'm holding on to videos, convincing myself that I will watch them one day. have also got music cassettes which I haven't played in years. Should I just bin them?
How do you get over the 'it may come in useful one day' mentalit/y

BoffinMum · 24/02/2013 11:16

I think the big thing for me was starting to conceptualise the loft less as a holding bay for memories/emotion, and more as a shop containing things I would otherwise have to buy. I even call it my 'loft shopping mall' now, and have a notional 'street' down the middle with the theoretical shops all labelled. Once I had done that, I realised that things that didn't really fit into any of the 'shops' were really in the way.

In terms of the cassettes, I think you have to go through them, dump anything you want to watch onto DVD/CD, and then ditch them, as the amount you are likely to use them is out of proportion to the space and emotional energy they currently take up. If you look on eBay there are so many people trying to sell entire sets of Star Trek or whatever on VHS, with VHS player included, and they find it hard to get any bids at all.

There is a risk in 25 years' time you might think "Oo, they are worth something now" but given the quantities they were made in, I doubt it would be an impressive amount of money for anything but the absolute rarest collectors' items. Meanwhile you could be showcasing things you actually use in that space.

pixiestix · 24/02/2013 12:40

I'm just checking in. Holiday and illness have sent me completely off track so I will be starting afresh tomorrow morning. It sounds like everyone is doing brilliantly.

educatingarti · 24/02/2013 16:46

pixie - not everyone is doing brilliantly. I don't think I am particularly. The week was really busy with work and I've been so tired this weekend. I've done a few essential things like food shopping and I went out for a meal yesterday evening and to church this morning but apart from that I've spent most of my time sleeping!

I did end up doing an unscheduled sort of the cutlery drawer in the kitchen. I moved the cutlery tray on Friday night to rescue something that had worked its way underneath, to find that the tray was stuck to the drawer by some unspecified brown gunge that looked as if it had been there for a very long time! Shock Blush I ended up taking everything out and dumping the tray and cutlery in the dishwasher and using washing soda to clean off the gunge in the drawer as ordinary kitchen spray wasn't cutting it!

Still it did mean I found three forks to de-clutter. (Unfortunately not four candles!)

I took a bag of bric-a-crap to the charity shop on Saturday and a few things to go in their rag collection.

Grandmaw - with respect to coming in useful "one day". Sometimes it helps me to be more specific - which "one day" do I mean? How many "one day"s am I likely to get in all honesty and will I really want to spend any of them doing x - in your case - watching such and such on video.

The other thing I'm finding handy is to not let the stuff I don't want to part with (with me - mostly stuff that may ( or may not) come in handy for future unspecified craft projects) get in the way of ditching stuff I am willing to get rid of. So just because I'm hanging on to some pictures from Junior Education magazine from the 1960s because I like them and they make me think nostalgically of childhood - even though I have no idea as yet where or if I will display them, that doesn't mean I can't get rid of 3 forks from the cutlery drawer.

Ok, the 3 forks aren't taking up much room but I'm finding that decluttering breeds decluttering (sometimes). Start with one or two things and you feel like doing more.

Paradoxically for me. telling myself there are "no rules" and I can hang onto stuff if I want, is actually helping me to set up challenges for myself. I'm aiming to get rid of 365 things more than I bring into my flat this year. It's harder than you think but does send me off searching for other stuff to ditch!

Another thing I'm finding good is to slowly re-locate things to store them as near as possible to where they are being used. I've done this most in my bedroom so far and things are so much handier and more likely to get put away now. As you go through drawers etc re-locating it makes you question what you really need and you do get rid of bits of crap. You can always start with crap removal "lite" and go back to do a deeper purge later.

By the way - with respect to videos. I think even charity shops aren't that keen to have them at the moment cos they don't sell well.

Could you challenge yourself to get rid of a certain proportion of your videos? So say you have 100 of them, could you decide you will get rid of the 10 you like least and are least likely to watch. Or get rid of the 10 music cassettes you think you are least likely to want to listen to again! Are there any that remind you of difficult/sad times in your life? I'd suggest those should be the first to go! You will feel so much better emotionally if you can start to get rid of stuff

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NotQuitePerfect · 24/02/2013 17:22

Grin at bric-a-crap arti!

Loving your shopping mall in the loft mindset, Boffin, wish I'd thought of that years ago.

Feeling energised by a spot of unscheuled de-cluttering this afternoon. DH moved car out of garage (to photograph it with the aim of selling - de-cluttering again, see?) which meant I could access some shelves I'd not been able to reach for months. A hideous cake-stand, 3 x bowls, a defunct tyre pumper thing, a basket & a vase immediately went into the boot of my car to be tipped tomorrow. (Our tip has a re-cycling area where people can just help themselves for a small donation.)

Inspired, I then turned to the 'futility' room drawers & add 2 x tablecloths to the pile. Also moved 1 x tablecloth and a glass mince-pie plate to the pile of stuff to go into the loft (I have now got 3 x clearly labelled plastic trunks in the loft with Christmas things in: fairy lights, decorations & baubles and 'crockery & napery'!)

A quick sweep of futility room shelves meant that a lever-arch file, a box file, a plant pot and 3 (3!) trays have joined the other stuff in the boot of my car.

So happy (smile)

BoffinMum · 24/02/2013 17:32

DH has been inspired and is - gulp - sorting out the GARAGE! Grin

Which is even more impressive as at lunchtime he actually nearly choked to death, and I had to try the Heimlich manoeuvre half a dozen times in order to save his life!! I was not successful but I bent him over the sink and hit him and the food flew out. It was a very close shave. Might be spending some of my profits on updating my first aid knowledge ...

LemonBreeland · 24/02/2013 17:34

boffin your loft sounds fabulous. Hanging onto stuff to be reused is great buy only if you can find it again, so your loft is perfect.

I haven't done much this weekend as I'm feeling rather rotten. I have moved my coffee table with a view to selling it and it has made me rethink the layout of the room. I am hoping to remove another table that curently houses an unused printer. This will make the room feel much more spacious.

I'm still happy with the amount of items leaving the house but I am finding sometimes I wish the difficult cupboards would sort themselves. I am putting them off, but in some ways it's nice to do the areas that you notice most first.

BoffinMum · 24/02/2013 18:17

Well, it will be perfect ... still the last little bit to go, but if I look hopefully at DH he might do it for me later.

You lot have a lot to answer for. I have just realised my wedding dress is from an excellent and very popular designer (when I got married she was pretty new on the scene and I didn't realise) and is worth something like £1000. I am wondering whether to sell it ... but will DD want it if she gets married?

LemonBreeland · 24/02/2013 18:21

I'm sure your wedding dress is lovely, but fashions change and I think your dd will enjoy picking out her own dress. :)

BoffinMum · 24/02/2013 18:26

She did say something along those lines to me but if she thinks we can afford a £2500+ dress like this one, she's mistaken!! Wink

It's pretty timeless and we have identical figures so it would make her look fantastic ... but I take your point ...

educatingarti · 24/02/2013 18:39

Boffin How about selling the dress and putting the money in a savings account as a contribution to dd's weeding dress when (and if) she gets married? - How old is your dd?

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educatingarti · 24/02/2013 18:42

wedding dress obviously - a bit expensive to do weeding in!

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