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The Fledglings' nests will be clean in 2013!

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superfluouscurves · 31/12/2012 21:44

(With many thanks to Jdub for title inspiration!!)

If your house is a mess and you are strugging with C.H.A.O.S. (can't have anyone over syndrome) and S.T.U.F.F. (something that undermines family fun) then this is the thread where we (loosely) follow the step-by-step Flylady housekeeping system (in our own, unique, relaxed style) with lots of chat, support and wine along the way.

This little-and-often system is designed so that you can follow a series of steps and routines each day (which gradually become second nature) in weekly designated zones of the house; defining and minimising housework - which in theory should leave you with more time to do other, more interesting things instead!

At the same time it is intended to reduce that panicky "rabbit in headlights" feeling when you are overwhelmed and everything needs doing all at once. No problem if you miss a day or two; just jump right back in and it will all come around next month again anyway!

We advise not signing up to receive the Flylady e-mails as you will be inundated (although some Fledglings find the compilation e-mails helpful)! All the information you need will be linked here on a daily basis.

From the first of the month, we will be following Flylady's steps and routines using a three-pronged approach (dependent on the stage everyone is at):

  • start or repeat baby steps
  • repeat baby steps + do 15 mins a day decluttering in the current zone
  • reinforce babysteps and do daily missions if you have finished decluttering.

[And if you are really enthusiastic and have finished decluttering - you can go on to detailed deep cleaning in each zone.]

More info here on getting started and Flying lessons. Here's the launch pad for more experienced fledglings. Don't be put off by the barf-tastic language of the site - the underlying system is sound (and you may discover a few of our subversions of the vocabulary along the way).

Huge thanks to Lauren for being our incredibly reliable and organised shining star in the East and leading us throughout the very busy month of December!!

Happy New Year Fledglings!!

All welcome!!

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Deckthecastle · 03/01/2013 06:04

Have just managed to read through the thread! So busy!
Got up to say goodbye to DBIL as DH was bringing him to the airport for his flight back to Australia. Sad Out of our six siblings there are three in Australia and one in London (we are in Ireland). Was so lovely having everyone home for Christmas, and sad to see them return.

To Do:

*Go back to sleep (only a little sleep, so tired these days, sleeping badly)

*Prep guest room for my brother and his girlfriend who cheerfully texted last night to say they would be here by 12 - what am I going to do with them all day in the rain had expected them at dinnertime...

*Babysteps, reboot laundry, make ensuite presentable as there is no shower/shower attachment in bath of bathroom in this pit of a rented hovel.

New Year Resolution: get money sorted from somewhere to finish building our own house, and get in to our own house. Smile

Will be back later!

Lauren thanks for Dec thread. Did you get your summerhouse finished?

SC Thanks for once again taking on the thread leadership Wink.

thekitchenfairy · 03/01/2013 06:41

Yesterday I shined sink and formfirstmtime in years got up,to make morning cuppamtomfind kitchen sink empty and counters clear!

The hall is also clear, my menu for the week is done so now I will drink my cuppa and check in with fly lady site and trymto figure out what the zone is today..

SilveryMoon · 03/01/2013 08:32

Morning. Had to set the alarm this morning because we've got to be out by 9:30. This holiday has got to be the first time ever that I still haven't been up between 6 and 7. The 5yo and 3yo are finally understanding lay-ins! yay! Grin (dreading Monday when school starts again)
Now to check the links and get cracking. Have a nice day everyone.
BBL

ToffeeWhirl · 03/01/2013 09:07

Done:

Cuddled DS2
Refused to give in to demands for XBox from DS1
Drank tea

To do:

Get dressed
Swish and swipe
B/fasts
Shopping with DS2 to spend his Xmas money
Wednesday's anti-procrastination task (procrastinated yesterday Blush)
Bedroom rescue
Thursday mission
Spend some time with DS1

That'll do for now. Hope you all have a productive, happy day.

laurenamium · 03/01/2013 09:08

Morning all!

deck the summer house looks amazing! I will put the photos on my profile Grin

I think I might have ringworm Envy

wewereherefirst · 03/01/2013 09:19

Morning all!
deckthecastle you've been building your own home- how have you found it?

SilveryMoon how lovely that you've had great lie-ins! Hope you feel refreshed!

Today it's just me and the DC's at home so I've got no real excuse not to get something done, but DS2 is 11months and has been a little whirlwind this morning.

Hope everyone has a fab day!

To do:

Clean down kitchen sides
Swap toys from sitting room to front room
Put cardboard into recycling boxes
Make phone calls for clubs/classes/appointments.
Play with DS1
Go to the park
Clean front door and inner door
Swish & swipe
Wait for shopping delivery
Hoover dining room to appease DS2
Washing and drying
Remake DC's beds
find time for a hot choc with brandy when DC's are in bed. Grin

LillethTheCat · 03/01/2013 09:22

Its just after 9 and Im nearly half way through my list Grin a lot of things left I can't do now anyway. Its only my revision I can get on with, everything else needs other things to occur (like eating or the washing machine to finish) first.

ta da

  • Washing Machine on
  • washed up
  • Wipe down front door
  • Wipe down Kitchen window sill (I know its not technically in tomorrow's list or that its not even in zone 1, but Ive got no errands to run,plus it will take 5 mins as Im shining my sink)
  • Make out lists for Fri, Sat and Sun

to do

  • 2nd load of towels (have discovered DD1 has put muck on one and another could do with a wash)
  • Drying
  • take laundry upstairs
  • wash up 2X
  • Shine Sink
  • Mock exam for my AAT course
  • fill machine for Fridays

I am definately enjoying keeping the kitchen sink nice and clean as I go. Its only been a day and a bit so not sure if its developed into a habit just yet, but hopefully it will get there by the end of Jan then I can work on another habit.

elliepac · 03/01/2013 10:07

Morning all. After yesterdays exertions there isn't a whole heap to do today. List looks like this :-

Washing on done
Dryer on done
washing away
kitchen tidy
make beds
swish/swipe
hotspot
plan dinner
think of something to do with dc's this afternoon

Have a good day everyoneSmile .

WhatKatyDidToday · 03/01/2013 10:34

Ta da
Breakfast done and tidied away
Up and dressed to slippers done
shop put away done
quality time with DCs 1&2- moon sand Sad crap idea, whole house now covered in sand, DC3 face planted on laminate floor, cried and cried. Moon sand semi tidied away and hoovered. Feeding DC3 and hoping she'll have a good nap so I can
Swish and swipe bathrooms and
Flick Hoover round and put
Wash on

This thread does keep me motivated though!

Jdub · 03/01/2013 10:36

Good morning everyone,

Back to work for me today (and it's blooming freezing!)
DCs have been taken to my folks for 2 days, so tonight's plan of action includes....

a stealth toy/book cull from both bedrooms
under the bed hoover and duvet cover change
upstairs bathroom clean
fold and put away washing

ta das...
so far very thin on the ground but later on, just watch me go!!!!

Some kind soul here is just making another round of warm drinks to huddle round, while someone upstairs sorts the heating!

Have cosy days one and all x

DoubleMum · 03/01/2013 11:06

Done:
made packed lunch for DH who then informed me he had meetings and lunch was provided - so that's tomorrow's lunch in the fridge then
unpacked dishwasher
took DH to work
washing machine on and washing hung up
picked up dry cleaning and gave in to begging to buy dragon fruit

To do:
tidy kitchen
hotspot
make pizza dough for visitors tomorrow
put chicken curry in slow cooker
go to friend's house for lunch and kids' play afternoon
swish something or other
shine sink

BitchyDragons · 03/01/2013 12:10

Still got half a christmas tree to take down, didn't do very much yesterday and had terribly irrasponsibly late night last night. As did ds. He had fun though. Pj day today. Am just about to consider being awake.
Should have a massive to do list to day but atm cba.

Lauren - irrc ring worm is an issue when working with horses and other cattle. Hope you can get sorted. Must be a right pain.

As you can see my mammoth list was a bit of a one off and my sink is yet to be shiny. Kitchen floor wash shiny yesterday after it got flooded. But need to wash it again as i missed spots in the clearing up.

In this house the clutter generally comes in book form! Or crafting stuff/wips.

First stop i think is going to have to be coffee

superfluouscurves · 03/01/2013 12:19

Morning everyone.

Good luck to those of you returning to work today. Hope it's not too onerous an experience!!

And well done to all of you who have been working solidly through their lists! The enthusiasm of newcomers at this time of the year is always good for us oldies ...!!

DD has had one of her white and trembling "turns" this morning and although she is OK now (propped up on sofa eating cream crackers with Philadelphia) I am booking yet another doc's appt and insisting on blood test and visit to cardiologist this time, just to stop me worrying if nothing else. She just doesn't seem to have any energy and seems to be on the verge of fainting all the time. So serious Flying not really happening apart from a bit of laundry and a few basic routines.

Tell you what though, have done 15 mins decluttering/tidying in outrageously untidy boudoir for two days running (about to do third) and even that little bit has made a difference. So don't despair everyone - small steps really do work!

The diet - which I've been following for precisely one day - went to pot last night though in the face of delectable mezze feast in wonderful Lebanese restaurant. Ate healthily but far too much and had wine as well ... . A pitiful performance!.. And am knackered cos was out far too late.

Am supposed to be doing hwk for academy too and haven't even started yet. Oh dear.

Anyway, how are all of you?

Ah Doublemum it was you who was one step ahead of the missions!! Well done! V. impressed by bread-making too.

Lilleth arf at mistaking dw for dear wife!! Must admit, think a dishwasher is worth its weight in gold. (Regulars will know that I drone on about this all the time.) It pays for itself eventually too cos you use far less water and sterilises everything at 60°c. Would be one of the first things I would try to save in a fire. Well done with getting through your list yesterday - you are obviously on a roll today too - glad the system is working for you!!

Crikey Nicknacks you had a humungous day yesterday!! Top marks - a real blitzer of a list! Think you win the golden duster!! (Closely followed by Ellie and Silvery!!) Was wondering though, precisely how your alcohol was decluttered Wink Grin

Good going with the meal planning Goth

Oh Ellie you obviously have much more self-discipline than I do (re: wine) (and Flying for that matter!) which is why you have maintained/lost weight over Christmas, and I have ballooned Blush Need to get serious about this and go back on MFP too. Enjoy your afternooN.

Wewereherefirst would love to be able to offer advice on procrastination but am Olympic standard!! Flylady system definitely helps and some people have also found a book by Brian Tracey called "Eat that Frog" useful - think there is another called "Kiss that Frog" - can't remember which is the original. Check it out on Amazon. Like the last item on your list today btw Grin

Silvery a humungous list from you too yesterday! Btw, if it's any consolation, I seem to recall that dd went through a mahoosive "no" phase around about 3 yrs - think it is a natural stage of development ...so don't take it personally, although I remember it being rather demoralising at the time! Hope your ds is feeling better today!

MC despite all my good intentions to get organised for next week, decorations are staying up here until 5th by request of youngest of the house!

[dons dark glasses whilst looking at WhatKatydid's shiny sink and halo Grin don't get demoralised by other people's lists - we are all at different Fly stages ...and little and often is better anyway!! Oh dear re: moon sand Smile Hope it can be hoovered.

Well done Mercury you sound very on top of things!

As do you Trazzles!

Crikey, all of you are putting me to shame on this thread. Better get my act together Grin

Swan yes, must admit that huge part of house is also arranged with no-one's convenience in mind. Most bits of furniture are situated where they are because someone has staggered up the stairs as far as they could and dumped them in easiest place!! Well done re: fitness drive!

MummyD definitely see what you mean about extending your dh's 'to do' list!!! Grin Great that your ds is chipping in though!

Toffee oh lord yes [just remembering how wearisome getting dd to write thank you letters is - about five times more wearisome than doing it myself]

Kirk1 Phew that you have a new wm arriving shortly. You don't won't to be without a spin facility in January!! You are dead right re: baby-steps and what a lovely dh you have!! (It never occurs to mine to even wipe down a kitchen surface never mind deep clean ... and as for what he does to bin lid [shudders])

LadyD if it's any help, the pharmacies here (mainland Europe) will accept/take back old out-of-date medicines/pills and dispose of it properly for you. Don't know if it's the same in the UK (if you are in UK that is!) but maybe worth asking.

Happy New Year to you too Castle!! Sounds like you had a fab family Christmas all together! We've seen family in dribs and drabs this year so I'm hoping for an "all-together in one place" Christmas in 2013. Hope you enjoy your brother's visit!

Hope you caught up on sleep MrsPennyApple

Hello KitchenFairy glad baby-step one is working for you!!

Lauren [ohhh - excited to see summer house] Sorry about ringworm - hope the doc can sort it out.

Keep warm Jdub!!

Huge wing flaps to Gossip, Loveinidleness (good luck with baby-steps), Justgettingonwithit and anyone I've forgotten.

Hope I haven't missed anyone out - got a bit confused by double posts and scrolling up and down - obviously drank more than I thought last night!! Grin

Hope you all are having productive days!!

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BitchyDragons · 03/01/2013 12:20

Swan - how has taking the calendar been going. I am finding the fact that it is not on the wall is actually making me less stressed atm. I still have then and they are kept up-to-date but the simple fact it is not one the wall is helping.

superfluouscurves · 03/01/2013 12:23

xposts

Here's a Brew Bitchy Nowt wrong with having fun!

Don't talk to me about crafting clutter ....[whimpers]

Doublemum [hovers expectantly] some delicious cooking going on in your kitchen ...

Better get back to dd ...

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superfluouscurves · 03/01/2013 12:28

oops

Kirk that should have read "you don't want" (not won't) Sorry - rushing!

Will proof read 'before' posting next time!

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NickNacks · 03/01/2013 12:32

I wouldn't get too envious of my lists! I've been flying for two yrs now and still fail more times than I succeed! For the newbies who don't know I am also a childminder so my house has more toys and baby clutter than most and so needs keeping on top of so I have a presentable house to welcome the mindees and their parents. We don't want them thinking I look after their children in a hovel.

Well no mindees today so taking things a bit slower.

Ta da so far...

Hoovered sitting room
Emptied dw
Nit checked 3dc Hmm
Dropped ds2 to friend's house
Made tuna rolls for lunch
Went to co-op for few bits
Put a wash on
All clean clothes away
Chased an outstanding invoice

Happy errand running Thursdays everyone! :)

MrsPennyapple · 03/01/2013 13:01

Hello everyone, reasonably successful morning:

Ta da:
2 x washing done (still need to get dry though)
TV stand dusted
Kitchen tidied
15 min declutter
Xmas decs taken down (still got to dismantle tree though)

Haven't really got a list today, am just doing bits as I spot them.

LadyDeidreWaggon · 03/01/2013 13:45

Afternoon all
Back at work from yesterday so trying to remember what I need to do each day to continue FLYing.
Current plan is:
AM Swish and Swipe, hang out washing, ensure dcs and dh clean, dressed, fed, have what they need for day, get self to work.
PM (After exercise, cooking meal, eating, supervising homework, dc2 to bed) 15 mins in Zone, clear hotspot, shine sink, do one cleaning job (usually hoover or mop), load dw & put on timer delay, ditto washing machine, ditto breadmaker.

Have also been trying new system with ironing. Each evening I iron anything that was in the previous night's wash, anything I can't get away with putting away creased that is Wink. It has taken all of 15 minutes, max, and means no ironing mountain at weekends.

My ultimate goal is to have no household chores to do at weekends .......... is this feasible ?

madwomanintheattic · 03/01/2013 14:01

sil goes home today, mil and fil here until the end of the month. Am working, and dh is back at work today, so kids are hanging out with grandma whilst fil takes sil back to the airport. Kinda neat - they don't get to hang with her v often, what with them living a 9 hour flight away!

Lovely friend is due back from her mum's today with her dd - unfortunately, when she left the house on 27th to go to the other side of this big ol' country, her husband took the opportunity to move out... She hasn't told her dd yet (he is the dd's stepfather, and the dd was visiting her dad, and friend didn't want to ruin her time over Christmas with her father as she doesn't get to see him often). So she gets to break the news to dd on the way home from the airport, and then they have to go home and see what's left, as no one has been there since he cleared out...

I am worried sick for her. She did a stint in rehab, and has been dry for so long. Am hoping she's strong enough for this. I think she is, but it's going to be v hard for her. She moved her dd thousands of miles from her dad to be with him, and now he's walked.

Apols for completely an utterly unflying nonsense. Grin

I now have an hour to remove the piles of ironing from the living room where dh was ironing last night, else mil will do it all today .

And shower and go to work. Yes, I'm mning in pjs. No I don't have my shoes on. Grin

Tonight the ironing marathon continueth.

madwomanintheattic · 03/01/2013 14:03

Am also green at deirdre's plan. Fly lady's exhortations for renewing your spirit and family fun, to the MAX. Sounds lovely.

ToffeeWhirl · 03/01/2013 14:05

Lady - I think Flylady suggests we still do laundry on a Saturday and usual routines every day (swish and swipe, for example), but otherwise the system is meant to help us get everything done in five days, leaving the weekend for family time and relaxation.

Took DS2 to the playground, then shopping to spend his Xmas money. He now has a new wooden footbridge for his Brio train set and another wooden village. I am about to push the dining-room table back to the side of the room, so he can build a city Grin.

Next step is to tackle our bedroom, which is full of all the stuff we threw in their when tidying the house for Xmas. I think I will have to do it in 15 minute bursts or I will burnout.

ToffeeWhirl · 03/01/2013 14:07

Madwoman - your poor friend and DD Sad.

Also, sympathies on the ironing mountain. I suspect I will have acquired one once I have finished in the bedroom.

madwomanintheattic · 03/01/2013 14:14

I haven't even started in the bedroom.

BitchyDragons · 03/01/2013 14:14

I echo what Toffee has said. :(