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Fledglings Remember to FLY through November...

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BlueEyeshadow · 30/10/2012 22:25

If your house is a mess and you are strugging with C.H.A.O.S. (can't have anyone over syndrome) and S.T.U.F.F. (something that undermines family fun) then this is the thread where we (loosely) follow the step-by-step Flylady housekeeping system (in our own, unique, relaxed style) with lots of chat, support and wine along the way.

This little-and-often system is designed so that you can follow a series of steps and routines each day (which gradually become second nature) in weekly designated zones of the house; defining and minimising housework - which in theory should leave you with more time to do other more interesting things instead! At the same time it is intended to reduce that panicky "rabbit in headlights" feeling when you are overwhelmed and everything needs doing all at once. No problem if you miss a day or two; just jump right back in and it will all come around next month again anyway!

We advise not signing up to receive the Flylady e-mails as you will be inundated! All the information you need will be linked here on a daily basis.

From the first of the month, we will be following Flylady's steps and routines using a three-pronged approach (dependent on the stage everyone is at):

  • start or repeat baby steps
  • repeat baby steps + do 15 mins a day decluttering in the current zone
  • reinforce babysteps and do daily missions if you have finished decluttering.

[And if you are really enthusiastic and have finished decluttering - you can go on to detailed deep cleaning in each zone.]

More info here on getting started and Flying lessons. Here's the launch pad for more experienced fledglings. Don't be put off by the barf-tastic language of the site - the underlying system is sound (and you may discover a few of our subversions of the vocabularly along the way).

Many thanks to SC for leading the thread through October (and for such a good OP, which I've blatantly cut and pasted) - Thanks - and I'll post the first babysteps and mission tomorrow evening.

All welcome!!

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PositiveAttitude · 13/11/2012 09:20

Hi WhoKnows. Good luck with work I know when I returned after my op and recovery a couple of years ago it took about 5-6 weeks before I felt up to doing all my hours without needing to collapse as soon as I got home. Take it easy and don't expect too much of yourself.

CarpeJugulum · 13/11/2012 09:21

Oh FFS.

Middle off the month and I'm lost already. And don't even mention flying.

Things here have gone by the wayside since nits moved in to my hair 10 days ago. I've been treating them with chemicals and nitty gritty and have been "free" for ages, but the time it takes each morning just kills all my routines. And apparently I'm so bloody allergic to them that I can still be itching 10 days after pulling the last little one out. DH has checked me, I've checked me, and I've applied chemicals twice and I still itch. I think I have stealth ninja nits.

However, I hereby swear (and can someone check that I do this!) that I will catch up with the thread tonight. Tomorrow DS is in nursery for the morning and I am planning a blitz of my cupboard in DS's room so that his toys can go in there.

I will be back... HONEST!!!!

BlueEyeshadow · 13/11/2012 10:59

Hi to termtime - welcome to the thread. Nice to see you Carpe - don't feel you have to catch up!

I've been out spending money this morning. Not exactly retail therapy with DS2 in tow... He seems a lot perkier today though so that's something.

Time for a Brew - tray's on the bar...

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GossipWitch · 13/11/2012 12:26

Hello all, feeling much better today. Had a hormone boost and friendship boost as well so my mood is now more uplifted and I feel like I can take on the world, well my world anyway, had a depo (aka hormone boost) jab this morning and the nurse says that because I'm down towards the time the next jab is due, I can have it a week earlier to boost me up again. I dread to think what I'm going to be like when we start ttc, hopefully pregnancy will set in before dp leaves me for being so moody.

so today I have done:-
got up late
got the kids sorted
took kids to school
had depo
met up with family link lady
had much needed coffee with friend
done big shop

still to do:-
load dishwasher
sort washing
tidy kitchen
tidy lounge
tidy hall and landing
cut in white paint
roller ceiling
pick boys up
fill more holes that I've made
cut in blue paint, as far as I can reach
cook tea
put boys to bed
roller walls upstairs only
have a bath and relax

GossipWitch · 13/11/2012 14:37

Well wont get the decorating done as I will be popping off to get the kids shortly.

ilovetermtime · 13/11/2012 16:23

Thanks for the welcome! I'm looking forward to, hopefully, finally getting to grips with this housework lark. I get home on Sunday after 2 weeks away and I'm already dreading what I'll find - based on what I normally get back too!

swanthingafteranother · 13/11/2012 18:15

Toffee Whoknows well today dh headed for Hampshire, in reaction to being at home too long Shock

Today I have been helping my SIL look after her two little ones, who are very little. I have never met such an articulate 1.8 year old. I learnt my lesson though, when she started asking for Cappucinos;never let a toddler get the upper hand...
Also took dd to piano, homework done x 2
Had another hummungous row with dh first thing (partly due to B and SIL situation) Although I see he has changed round playroom as I suggested [yippee!]

oh dear, netball calls, dd is rifling through small change jar in search of fee

toffee well done for getting an entertainer this time, if I remember last time the party was a fantastic success but you were exhausted to the core why do we put ourselves through all this? [having said that, ds1 still hasn't had a party and it was APRIL Blush

what's for dinner baked potatoes

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 13/11/2012 18:27

Waves at Mr Swan, hope he had a good day down here.

Gossip - glad you're feeling better

Carpe - boo to nits

Blue - thanks for the Brew

PA - respect to your cleaner for getting rid of poo piles

I'm tired, been a busy day. I managed two hours at work, but that was definitely enough, with school runs and ballet / Rainbows after. My mum is here and has been a great help though.

laurenamium · 13/11/2012 20:03

Evening all, glad you are feeling better gossip!

I've managed to cross off everything on today's list Grin had a lovely afternoon with my horse and even squeezed in a long dog walk on the beach before picking DD up from the CM!

Building of the summer house begins tomorrow Grin very excited!!!

swanthingafteranother · 13/11/2012 22:20

Whoknows glad your mum was there to help. Well done on managing those two hours.

Lauren I am feeling increasingly urban reading your posts! Next thing I think I will imagine you galloping along the beach with the wind in your hair, picnicking in summer house

Gossip amazing amount of work there!

done
update
taken out the recycling( loads)
made packed lunch and egg mayo for dh lunch tomorrow
5 people fed
wash on

and another day of toddlers tomorrow; my auntie is helping too though in morning. So knackered after loads of walking and pushchairs, how do mums do it?

laurenamium · 13/11/2012 22:47

Grin swan I live in a seaside town, but 10 minutes drive away is rolling countryside! My horse is kept near Roseberry topping en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roseberry_Topping and this is where I ride Grin

I'm very lucky, however the town where I live and the near by biggest town have been named the worst for employment in the uk- it's very run down but on balance with big cities its not too bad Smile

laurenamium · 13/11/2012 22:48

I'm not bothered about being outed by the way incase I've panicked anyone!

laurenamium · 13/11/2012 22:50

Actually, if anyone has been watching X factor, I went to school with James Arthur. There were pictures of his "home town" on Saturdays show!

BlueEyeshadow · 13/11/2012 23:04

Evening all. Quick links and run again tonight, I'm afraid.

Babystep is to read another bit of propaganda an essay...

Mission is wiping the bathroom cabinet.

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ShiftyFades · 13/11/2012 23:20

Just want to check in and apologies for my absence Blush

DS and I are living at Mum & Dad's house whilst the builders remove part of the lounge roof (to incorporate it within the extension). DH is sleeping in DS's bed at home.
90% of the lounge is in our bedroom, couldn't fit it all in. It's chaos on an extreme level.
I'm so busy with rehearsals for 2 concerts coming up (the next 2 weekends), DS had just had. His b'day and all his friends are having parties too....

I'm exhausted Sad

I've been working in my days off as I've so much to do and I've been stuck in meetings galore... Bloody change programme...

I washed up for mum & dad yesterday. Erm.... That's it!! Blush

BlueEyeshadow · 14/11/2012 06:59

List for today... to do:

Laundry
Random wall spots
Mission
Dusting
Music
Newsletter
Work
Ironing
Filing
Ds1 spellings & reading
Blog
Phonecalls

Probably more too...

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strictlycaballine · 14/11/2012 07:49

[wing flaps to all of you from deep within naughty corner]

Talk about mid-month slumps. House is a tip. We all have low level bug. We are all a bit grumpy/snappy. Am doing eff all Flying or painting because frankly I CBA. Apart from that, everything is alright really Grin

laurenamium · 14/11/2012 08:37

Morning all, just a list dump here! Summer house foundations are going down as I type Grin

To do:
Bathroom cabinet
Routines
Sweep kitchen floor
Walk dogs
DD and mindee to rhyme time
School run
Learning journeys and planning tonight

BBL!

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 14/11/2012 09:08

Morning all,

Lauren - excuse me being nosy, but I am a bit puzzled, does our DD go to her own CM as well as you being one? Or am I misreading your lists. I clicked on your link yesterday, very envious of where you live, I'm in Hampshire and while it's beautiful in a gentle, pretty sort of way i do crave rugged landscapes.

SC - oh dear, hope things pick up soon.

Shifty - good to hear from you, hope the building work progresses quickly so you can get home again soon.

Just bracing myself to go to work again. I think I might ask if I can bring some work home instead.

laurenamium · 14/11/2012 11:46

whoknows yes I childmind and on a Tuesday afternoon I pack DD off to my best friends house (who is also a childminder and I pay) while I go horse riding! [selfish parent emoticon] DD adores her childminder though so I'm guilt free Grin

GossipWitch · 14/11/2012 11:54

ds2 is sick dp went to pick him up from school half an hour after he went so we now have a poorly child on the sofa planning on getting more decorating done ds2 doesn't like being fussed over when poorly so we just have to keep giving him water and changing dvd's.

To do list :-
decorate the frigging hallway !!!

strictlycaballine · 14/11/2012 13:07

Well something must have rubbed off from my earlier whinge visit to this thread! (Thanks everyone!! Smile[) Have actually achieved a few minor things this morning and the sun has come out!! I really don't mind the cold - in fact I love autumn - but I do find dark days in this house v. depressing (lighting is awful). So it's lovely to be able to see the cobwebs and dust what I am doing for a change instead of squinting in to the gloom all the time.

Feeling a bit perkier after a swig of Whoknow's coffee, Radio4, dyeing Barnet Fair, making pumpkin veggie casserole thing and pairing socks Hmm

DD has gone off to a little lunch party (no school Wed pms here) which gives me a bit of extra free time and fortnightly ironing lady has actually turned up on the right day and strutted her stuff so have lots of crisp piles of linen to put away.

Lauren v. Envy of your Tuesday afternoons (not selfish at all!) and stunning countryside!! Spotted that your gps were going to the vet - hope all OK!!

Whoknows your area of Hampshire sounds lovely too. Good that you are taking it steady with return to work and that your ma is there to help out.

Blue glad to hear your ds2 is feeling a bit better

Shifty a belated happy birthday to your ds and good luck with continuing building battles/upheaval which sounds v. stressful

Swan arf at precocious toddler asking for cappucinos - she sounds lovely! Hope you are not too exhausted though. BTW dd's birthday was in July and we still haven't had the party (a) because all her friends are away in the summer (b) because this year she is in so many different conjoined classes for different languages we can't decide on who to invite - or more taxingly - who to exclude. Christmas is coming fast and all the weekends between now and then are filling up fast too [yikes emoticon]

A warm welcome to Ilovetermtime (hear hear to your nickname!) Hope things not too onerous on Sunday

Gossip glad you are feeling better and well done re yesterday's mega-list Sorry to hear your ds is poorly

Carpe don't worry - we all dive in and out of here depending on rl - tis lovely to 'see you'

PA you've got to love a cleaner who will willingly tackle poop!! Wd it be poss to spend one morning cleaning alongside her gesturing and explaining as you go - a hands-on demonstration sort of thing?

Hope your dp is OK Systems. I definitely think laying-out clothes night before is a crucial baby-step too (possibly not if you have 4 dc or more but definitely useful for us!!)

Hope your busy week and the cake-making is going OK Toffee

And hope you are ok Bitchy too if you are lurking.

Huge wing flaps to Trazzles Feetheart Ellie Justgettingonwithit Sowornout Honu Castlelough Engels and everyone else!

NickNacks · 14/11/2012 13:17

Hi everyone,

I'm so sorry once again I have fallen behind. Real life is dealing me a shit hand at the moment and my marriage is in trouble. I can't see a resolve in sight at the moment since neither of us believes we are the one in the wrong.

Sounds petty but it's major points and decisions we're talking about.

strictlycaballine · 14/11/2012 13:30

Oh no Nicknacks so sorry to hear you are undergoing such a stressful time. That must be so difficult for you ...
Here's some special fledgling Thanks and Wine for later on ...
And feel free to come on here and vent any time x

nightshade1 · 14/11/2012 16:47

well im hiding 9n the naughty corner.............my house is a tip, ds is poorly (horrid mucusy cough till hes sick job) and im halfway through stripping the wallpaper in the sitting room. its dd's birthday tomorrow and my dads coming to visit - i think tonight might be a long long night

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