Different attitudes to decluttering : WWYD?

[javotte]

Hello! DC3 is due in 7 weeks and I'm trying to clear the attic so that DH can convert it into 2 bedrooms. There are many things I'd happily throw away, such as stuffed animals we were given for DS and DD (they've been gathering dust for years). DH thinks it is disrespectful to the people who bought them. How could we compromise?

You could choose a couple for each, and the rest donate to charity/woman's refuge/local playgroup. Most will fare well on a delicate wash too if you wanted to freshen them up.

Unfortunately hospitals don't accept them (well, at least our local sick kids hosp didn't) if they are second hand in case they harbour germs etc.

Think your DH is being a bit sensitive! What and where to keep them does he suggest?!

Thanks Sleepyfergus. I live in France and there isn't a single charity that accepts them. The stuffed toys are just an example. He wants to keep things that "might be useful one day", but I think that if they are still in the box from when we moved in 3 years ago, it is unlikely to happen. DH says there will be anough space if things are "properly organised".

If the memories embodied in the toys etc are important to your DH might taking some photos for a memory box/scrap book help?

If charities in France don't take them would children's hospitals and hospices?