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I really need to get into a routine

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justtryingtodomybest · 29/07/2012 10:16

Please help me get into a routine to get on top of my housework. When I was single I used to blitz everything at the weekend and that was enough for the week. But since I got married that has gone out of the window.
DH has very low housekeeping standards and that seems to have rubbed off on me. But now I'm embarrassed when I look round the house. It's tidy enough but definitely not clean.
Please share your daily/weekly/monthly routines with me so I can get this sorted.
(I've looked at Flylady before but didn't really get it)

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GnocchiNineDoors · 29/07/2012 10:28

One thing that worked for me was to not do housework on nights that Corrie wasn on Grin. It's pretty much the only thing I watch on TV, so Mondays and Fridays were out (plus the odd Thursday). I would down tools on those nights so I feel like I get 'nights off'.

Also, as I like a tidy house for the weekend, and do NOT want to spend my weekend cleaning, I use Thursday and Friday daytimes (am on Maternity Leave) as my 'get everything ready for the weekend' days.

My DH has an X Box night on a tuesday, so I tend to do housework then. This is usually me in the bedroom with a movie on and a glass of wine doing the ironing or tidying the bedroom / changing the bed etc.

On my first trip to the loo in the morning I give everywhere in the bathroom a wipe over, bleach in the loo, refold towels, empty the little bin if needed and a sweep.

I also do washing by the basket, rather than colour. So, as soon as DDs basket is full, it all goes in and gets washed. As soon as our basket is full, again, it all goes in to wash. Towels are refolded and used again and all get put in together in one wash each week.

Try and find some little things that help. For instance, if you can't stand a messy kitchen, force yourself to clear up before you go to bed, as there's nothing worse than waking to a dump of a kitchen.

onemoreforgoodmeasure · 29/07/2012 10:29

Fascinating. I thought this would be a topic after my own heart as I'm obsessive, and then I googled flylady and freaked out a little bit.

Similarly, I was perfectly fine on my own and when my OH moved in suddenly house needed double the cleaning time and more frequently.

I think staying on top of it is best, so I do a little bit every day, making sure things are put away after using them, etc....

(and then I got a cleaner in, sorry, and I no longer fret or get angry, she does the big jobs for 2 hours a week, and then I do my little bits daily - worth considering - it may have saved my relationship!)

freshfruitsalad · 29/07/2012 10:51

I am terrible at housework, if I'm busy I just leave it and then get mad with myself for leaving it and have to have a blitz, will definitely change when I leave work in 2 weeks, house will be spotless then (til sproglet arrives)

justtryingtodomybest · 29/07/2012 10:53

Cleaner is not an option unfortunately. DH wouldn't even let me pay someone to cut the grass or clean out the wheelie bin because he's so tight

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TheCunningOlympicBMXStunt · 29/07/2012 10:56

I have to clean my (leather sofa) and all surfaces in the sitting room daily. We have wooden floors so dust is very veyr visible every day. It takes two mins with a damp cloth. I also sweep and clean my kitchen daily. Bathroom gets done every other day. I Hoover and polish the rest of the house on a Wednesday and saturday(change beds on Saturday too).

Once you get on top of it, it is definitely much much easier. If you can both spend some time, getting it to the standard you want, you should both be able to keep on top of it.

justtryingtodomybest · 29/07/2012 11:02

Kitchen daily and bathroom every other day!! I am in awe. I just don't know how to get the oomph to do that!
I don't really have any excuse. When I get home from work I don't have any other commitments. So why can't I do this?

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TheCunningOlympicBMXStunt · 29/07/2012 11:30

I work from home so the oomph comes from getting it all done before the school run so I can come back with dd, set her up with some stuff so I can work/study before school pick up. Once it gets to 6pm I like to sit and just relax and I can't seem to do that if everything isn't in order. I have been referred to as Monica from freindsBlush

onemoreforgoodmeasure · 29/07/2012 14:03

I just thought I'd add re the cleaner. I was getting angry at cleaning up after him and so every saturday morning he'd walk around feeling meek while I pointed out the things he'd done to make it more messy. And then luckily a friend of his got a cleaner and mentioend it quite often how my OH should give in. It was peer pressure in the end that got him to agree! And since then I no longer get really angry with him of a saturday morning!

TheCunnning, I used to be that way. I love cleaning the house and then being in it. I miss the ease of it all! Clean on girl!

SleepyFergus · 29/07/2012 18:08

Take a look at this thread, it has loads of handy tips. Made me feel incredibly useless when I read what other people do, but gives me hope. Keep meaning to re-read it and actually adopt some practices!

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/good_housekeeping/a1451448-LITTLE-things-that-help-keep-you-organised

justtryingtodomybest · 29/07/2012 21:20

I think my issue is one of motivation rather than anything else. Just not sure where to get some of that from

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