missed the first thread but I know what I like and I don't let anyone else dictate to me what is "in" and what is "out". Some people might look at my home and go "God what a cluttered old-fashioned place, everything is coloured or dark, how awful!" Others would look at it and like the warmth and eclectic style, yet others would think it's a bit messy and not what they would choose but it suits me.
One of my friends called it Steptoes. Another called it Aladdin's cave. Yet another said she couldn't understand why she felt comfortable in it because it was above her "normal" level of chaos and imbalance, but she did.
I don't care whether other people like it or not, tbh. I choose what I like - I have to live with it (and my family of course), not them.
I have a lot of old family furniture, most of it in dark wood colours. I don't "do" pale beech/limed oak/clean pine furniture. I don't do magnolia/neutral walls throughout. We have got stripped floors throughout but that's the nature of the house (single storey 1920/30s colonial style weatherboard job in Australia). We have an open fireplace with art deco original tiles - so the decor and soft furnishings are taken from those tiles.
If someone walked into my home and disparaged any of my choices, I'd think them mannerless oiks, not some paragon of style.
Buying stuff - mostly in junk/antique shops, garage sales, imported furniture shops (more dark wood, more interesting styles), "ethnic" homeware shops - although I have bought stuff in conventional places like John Lewis, Debenhams etc. as well.
Have never set foot in Ikea, don't plan to - but that's a personal choice - I have no issue with anyone else liking it.