Right, this is a do as I say not as I do conversation ok? My house would look better if a bomb hit it!
However,
Daily - pick up rubbish and empty bins, toys away, clothes into laundry basket, one load of washing a day, put away clean washing. Keep on top of dishes, wipe kitchen down.
Couple of times a week - hoover/sweep and mop, clean toilet
Once a week - dust, clean bathroom, change beds and one big job
Big jobs - clean mirrors and windows, wash down tiles in bathroom and tiles and cupboards in kitchen, wash down paintwork, move furniture to hoover under that kind of thing. If you do one a week then they end up getting done about every 6 weeks or so.
Of course depending on your family you may need to do some things more like hoovering if you have pets, cleaning bathrooms if they need it etc.
Also be ruthless, if its broken fix it or throw it away don't leave it there to get round to! Sort post as it comes in so you don't drown in paperwork (or switch everything to online that you can so you don't have piles of paper waiting to be filed/shredded).
Have a regular clear out of clothes and toys, and bin/charity shop etc.
I am by nature a hoarder, I have a fairly big house not that you would know it as we have the usuable space of a small bedsit! However I am slowly retraining myself to get a buzz from getting rid of stuff! Today I took 10 carrier bags of clothes to a charity! I'm getting there.
Anyway as the saying goes take my advice - I'm not using it 