I feel like tidying, cleaning, organisation and cooking could take up every second of the day if I let it and I don't know how much is reasonable/necessary and how much is just procrastination. What do you consider the daily, weekly, monthly essentials to keep chaos and total grot at bay?
What is the minimum I need to achieve in the house before I go on to do something else like exercise, gardening, reading a book etc.
I have one 4.5 DC, do paid work about 2.5 -3 days a week, a partner who works long hours and does hardly any housework. To avoid domestic disharmony we have a weekly cleaner who goes over the whole house but there is still a lot to do.