Hey hey
I have changed my name for this as I'm a bit embarrassed.
Hoping you may be able to offer some suggestions about how I can keep my house nice and sparkly and still smile.
Since starting maternity leave with dc2 in December I have taken on all housekeeping responsibility. This seems fair as I do have more time than dh. I just wish I could do it more graciously! I am starting to resent picking up after three other people and this means getting cross over ridiculously tiny things like an open wardrobe or dropped sock!! Not cool or attractive and reminds me of the kind of women I laugh at.
Anyway, DH is working really hard but I can't help but think he wouldn't be if he still did the school run etc. The extra time I give him by doing every single bloody thing in this bastard house (see told you it was unattractive!) is being spent in the office rather than with me and the children. I've tried raising it gently with him and it resulted in a bunch of flowers (gorgeous and kind but missing the point somewhat!)
any ideas?
growler