I've home educated for more than eight years.
My children never met with the LA, never sent them any work.
After years at school, being badly bullied (school a safety net? Pah!) and with their SEN completely unmet, we finally found out about home education -after frantically searching because my son said he didn't want his life any more and was deeply unhappy, we deregistered them.
The children didn't want to meet with any LA professionals.
They had been badly let down by them.
They were terrified that the LA would misunderstand their SEN (as they had up until then) and make them conform to their school based standard (which had failed my children so badly) and would put pressure on my children to go back to school.
Tomorrow I am going along with a family to meet with a social worker.
Other social workers from the LA, demonstrated only last week that they have no understanding about autonomous home based education and none about the childrens SEN (Aspergers and ASD)
The children were bombarded with questions for hours about their education.
They are being pushed to attend school again-in fact every thing my children feared would happen, is happening to these children-right now!
My children tell me now, that that sort of pressure would have made their unhappiness much worse,
My youngest has met with the man reviewing home based education and told him to his face why these sorts of enforced visits are such a bad idea for some children especially for those with a history of problems with school and severe SEN.
I said to him, and would say to anyone that being home educated by parental choice, saves the lives of children who are otherwise considering suicide.
I know this because I take phone calls and emails from local parents who are desperate to help their children, who have expressed a wish to kill themselves because they are so unhappy in school.
Unfortunately it is a message I hear all too frequently.
Keeping their children safe from bullying behaviour by LAs is something unfortunately too many home educating parents have experience of.